December 23, 2007...8:27 am
18. Why he’s after sex and not her
♥Women do not take time to make a man prove himself worthy through actions rather than words. When words are enough to conquer, that and little else is what men will offer.
♥Not in the pathological but the sociological sense, many women appear manic depressive seeking a man and obsessive compulsive trying to live with one.
♥Unlike men, women like to change whatever and whomever they find as inadequate—oftentimes parenting husbands as boys.
♥As women take up, permit, and enjoy sex for its own sake, men need not learn and respect other things of importance to females.
♥Every step women take away from feminine attractiveness or toward manliness forfeits more of their relationship expertise and ability to influence a man.
♥Feminism sours male devotion for one female, weakens family responsibility, and curdles masculine incentives for honoring female dreams.
♥Feminists change the culture by imposing political objectives outside the home. As men are weakened politically, they take it home and home life withers for their mates.
♥Feminists ridicule and devalue virginity. This dampens manly ego-stroking and masculine sense of conquest. Feminists begrudge the male ego, but the process devalues females more than it hurts men.
♥Healthy marital habits are formed during courtship. For example, repeated refusals for unmarried sex bring out a man’s charm and displays of affection. (If not, he’s after sex and not her.) Over time, he learns to show affection, and the habit forms. This is what she expects in the years to come, but he learns it by her being the chaste teacher before they marry.
♥In our world today where sex comes before marriage, men look at attractive women as sex targets until conquered and as keeper, backup, duty slut, or throw-away after conquest. The more that women provide unmarried sex, the easier for each individual woman to miss out as a keeper.
♥Men crown their natural aggression and dominance with violence, unless women tame, civilize, and domesticate them. It starts with mother, depends greatly on adolescent girls, and finalizes under the tutelage of a good wife. (Women as lovers and live-ins contribute little, because their potential for being dumped significantly reduces their influence.)
♥Men need no lessons for ‘wham, bam, thank you, mam’. They learn how to treat a woman differently by being rejected for sex by her and others before her.
♥Morality serves women, but men don’t need it. Mothers and other females must see that boys and men live within the moral expectations of women.
♥Mothers civilize and domesticate boys. Chaste girls tame and teach testosterone terrors to honor female dreams. Grateful wives finish the process of making great husbands. Or men disappoint women.
♥Of course women are entitled to the same bad habits as men. However, if men wanted a wife more like the guys, same-sex marriage would have become common millennia ago.
♥Parents civilize and domesticate boys. Girls tame boys’ hormonal explosion by withholding sex. Wives motivate husbands to excel at husbanding and fathering. As done today, miss one step in this process and the man falls short, and this leaves his wife to finish the job of fulfilling her dreams about marriage.
♥People don’t improve by being told of their faults. They improve to meet the expectations of those they like, admire, and respect—those who cite their strengths and reliability. Husbands are people.
♥Strong-willed feminine mystique, female modesty, and moral imperatives focus a man on a woman’s uniqueness, her gender independence, the moral floor for his behavior, and the ceiling of her expectations.
♥The aggressive male nature requires taming. Mothers nurture boys into adolescents that respect women. Chaste girls civilize boys into men that expect to honor the dreams of women. Wives energize husbands to respect family, relationships, and responsibilities.
♥The female nature seeks to live up to something bigger such as God, their man, their children. Men must learn to live that way, which puts teaching in the hands of women.
♥The greater that females show respect and gratitude for males generally, the greater each woman’s respect and gratefulness for her man.
♥The less respect that women show the male gender, the more irresponsible men become for helping fulfill female dreams for home and family.
♥The more that women trash-talk masculine characteristics, the less men honor female sensibilities.
♥The more that women try to act like men, the less men honor the female gender as unique and praiseworthy for much more than sex.
♥The number one complaint of women is that their man does not show enough affection. Showing affection is unnatural for men, so they must be taught. However, nagging and criticism don’t teach lathering of affection, because both alienate.
♥Women can best tolerate a man’s dominance, keep him, and contain his promiscuous urges by working from the only playbook that puts women directly in charge of both social and domestic arenas—No Sex without Marriage.
♥Women either set civilizing, domesticating, and cultural values through home life, or men foist masculine hubris on female sensibilities.
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