Men are born hard-headed and hard-hearted. Women are born hard-headed but soft-hearted. Oftentimes women go soft in their thinking. Mushy, that is. Poor results dealing with men usually follow:
She believes in little, so she tends to believe in anything. This defines her soft headedness.
She accepts a man’s words instead of taking time to test and judge his actions.
She believes too easily what men tell her, and so she falls for offers that favor his interests over hers.
She cannot separate a good man for marrying from a man good for fun and games.
She cannot turn away from the self-centered man full of himself and venomous words that parboil her self-esteem, reduce her self-image, and subvert her self-interest.
She disregards or fails to exploit the character shaping and guidance provided by God, religious morality, and her female nature.
She dresses daughters in adult-like, fanciful, and erotic attire to make herself look good as a modern pop culture parent. She exposes her child. A sex recruiting poster for both the stepfather and males inclined to stalk, rape, kidnap, and murder.
She has learned little in her life about the nature of males and females and less about how to make them complementary and compatible—even if she were to try.
She wants her own man so badly that she signs up with almost any male offer.
She wants to build and maintain her castle through him but not for him. She thinks ‘equality’ with household work and child care is not only attainable but sustainable to her man’s liking and acceptance.
