Virtual virginity means acting like a virgin committed to saving herself for her husband.
Abstinence holds men off. Chastity keeps men interested. Virginity—real, virtual, or imagined—attracts the Marrying Man.
The more restrained a woman’s sexual activity, the easier to earn a man’s respect upon which his love can be built. (Coming soon: A post about the toxins of disclosing her sexual history.)
Playing ‘hard-to-get’ empowers a woman to dominate a courtship. She can separate a man’s actions as devotion to her alone from his words of commitment that may be hollow to enable conquest. She can shape their relationship to keep brightening her future. She can force a long sex-free courtship to better assess his character and value as husband and potential father.
Once she yields, however, his nature and character—or lack of character—take hold. He assumes the dominant role as conqueror’s right.
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04/28/2009 at 5:58 am
Right before I found this blog, on another blog a guy named “mike” wrote in warning females that they loose power with a guy the minute they have sex, and encouraged females to wait until after marriage, also as Dr. Kevin Leman says “after the first instance of sexualrelations, the intimacy level for the man goes down” just wanted to put these tidbits out there
Your Prettiness Theresa,
Thanks. We’re fans of Kevin Leman. His Birth Order Book taught us a lot, especially Grace about how to better handle my unique first-born traits. As a last-born, she has fewer birth order faults, or so she convinced me. (Maybe I should read the book again.)
Guy