♫ Virtual Virginity, aka VirtVirgin, enables a woman to uncover what a man is really after—conquest, conquer and dump, frequent and convenient sex, or her above all else.
♀ Virtual virginity means to the Dating Man either (1) he’s not good enough for her, (2) he’s not good enough yet, or (3) she has religious, moral, or other reasons for not yielding. All three reasons present challenges to draw him back to her. If he’s just after sex instead of her, he’ll dump her in a short while.
Thus, a VirtVirgin produces dump-before-sex, which is better than dump-after-sex for four reasons: (a) She wins by uncovering his camouflaged, disingenuous, and perhaps dishonest motivation. (b) She won’t have him in her closet of forgotten sex partners who were never worth her anyway. (c) She can slam him into the ‘Thank God’ corner of her memory bank. (d) She doesn’t have to explain him to a future husband.
♀ Provided he’s after her instead of just conquest, a VirtVirgin forces him to more patiently look for her weaknesses that might enable conquest. In the process, over time, he learns by absorption about her strengths, qualities, and potential for wifehood. Once she yields, he quits looking for weaknesses and so fails to recognize and learn to appreciate more of her non-sexual assets. That is, after conquest, he quits looking so hard at what all she has to offer him.
♀ Acting as VirtVirgin makes a female unique and highly worthy of pursuit. Conquest makes him the competitive superior to other men, and the greater her perceived worth as chaste, the more eagerly he bends to her expectations—provided his pursuit is hampered by her refusals for a long time. That is, she adds value to herself by being more insistent about saving herself for her husband.
♀ Feminists claim men should not be that way, and they try politically to change the male nature. Male behavior changes long enough to conquer another woman, but masculinity eventually trumps both politics and female wishful thinking. Individual women pay the price by losing a man they hope to keep.
♀ A man’s natural pursuit of other females does not stop until one woman so captures his respect and captivates his imagination that he devotes himself to her alone. Being a VirtVirgin is her best strategy for winning this battle of the sexes.
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04/25/2008 at 12:45 pm
I am so ready to begin to live my double life. Good Girl by Day and slut by night. I WILL have my cake and eat it too!