74. Sex differences explain men—Chap. 7

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Sex to her is giving of herself. To him, it’s taking—especially their first time together.  

She is the expert on relationships and bonding. He is the expert on sex and escaping.

Starting at puberty, boys are turned off by female nagging—unless she’s a sex target as yet unconquered. It’s natural and for life.

Women make the institution of marriage of, by, and for women and children. Men can easily do without, as modern women find out.

The male nature promotes these concepts: might-makes-right, Rule of Man, and winning as the only thing. The female nature promotes right-makes-might, Rule of Law, and how one plays the game as more important than winning.

The masculine way is eat to enjoy life. The feminine way is eat to sustain life.

The sexual pleasures for a woman are far outweighed by the other things she needs for a happy life. Men for the most part let sex substitute for whatever else is missing.

Therapeutic recovery for a man lies within his work or doing something. A woman mostly relies on time for healing while unloading anguish to the sympathetic and empathetic ears of friends.

To a woman in her home, décor and fashion supersede functionality. For men, functionality should reign.

To men sex is an end. To women sex is a means.

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