77. Mr. Right: need or kneed? 1st Unit

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Need—A successful marriage is not in finding the right person. It is being the right person. As the relationship expert, this obligation falls heaviest upon the woman.

Need—A woman has to sell a man on fidelity, marriage, and her female worth as comfort partner. Otherwise, men focus on frequent and convenient sex as comfort from their daily ‘battles’.

Need—A woman should not tolerate any man or thing (e.g., movies) that embarrasses her, disturbs her sense of privacy or personhood, or calls for her to assume the male role in a relationship. Preventing these things empower her with the greatest counterbalance to male domination.

Need—A woman should suspect a man’s words of commitment and assess his devotion from his actions. Differences between words and actions reveal his true intentions—if she has enough patience, that is.

Need—A woman’s deferment of a man’s conquest forces him to suppress his aggressiveness, weaken his dominant spirit, and please her habitually, unless he’s only after sex.

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Kneed—Modern wives reject castle-building for their man. They enshrine themselves with him as prince consort to her as sovereign queen. Only wusses, feminized men, and political correctioneers stay long with such women.

Kneed—Modern women undermine their marriage two ways: They practice masculine-style sexual freedom before and try to change their man after.

Kneed—Happiness flows from gratefulness for something or someone. If she’s not grateful for him after marriage, he was never the Right Man.

Kneed—Male bashing in emails and koffeeklatches associates men with domestic irresponsibility. The self-fulfilling prophecy fulfills, and women get more of what they don’t want.

Kneed—By focusing on their man’s weaknesses and faults, women lose gratefulness for him. Her unhappiness follows loss of gratitude.

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