January 28, 2008...1:34 pm
79. Hook up but no call—Part 2
Women hook up only to ask the question: Why does he not call? Possible reasons apply both after weeks of dating and one-night stands.
Ω She acted desperate and easily readable.
Ω He thinks more of her as candidate for his parade of conquered females than as a prize worthy of a return bout.
Ω He was just looking for a one-night stand.
Ω He’s committed to another.
Ω She’s sexy but unlikeable by him.
Ω She’s likeable but unattractive to him.
Ω She expects hook up to bond him with her.
Ω She yielded too soon. He learned nothing about whatever else she may have to offer.
Ω He’s an asshole, which she should have taken time to detect.
Ω She showed signs of a nag, haranguer, meddlesome female.
Finally, obligation to return following hook up is a function of commitments made before hook up. This takes time to win him over for more than sex. Time’s also needed to build trust that he’s won over.
1 Comment
January 28, 2008 at 5:54 pm
He just forgot
He was rather busy with work
He is too shy and nervous (he thought you are out of his league)
He lost his phone/the bit of paper with the number on
He had a family emergency
He (falsely) interpreted your signals and things you didn’t like him
Some woman that got off her butt to ring him got in there first
He is taking his time, two weeks is not that long, especially if he is from the countryside
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