117. Her sexual history? —Part II

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Women that have matured beyond adolescence know intuitively NOT to disclose their sexual history to their man. Grown women with an adolescent mind set sense otherwise. The latter spoil it for the former; they make full disclosure popular and force men to live with what they seek but don’t need to know.  

She has four options:

1.      She chooses by herself or at his urging and discloses everything candidly. Adolescent-minded women stupidly see this as her part of their bonding. Sex does not bond men and especially not sex other men have had. Adolescent-minded men see her as weak, and that weakens a man’s respect. Mature men see it the same way but tempered with a wee bit of understanding.

♀ Adolescent-minded women also lack many other skills for holding a man.

2.      She responds to his inquiries but discloses only what’s absolutely necessary, only what’s pulled out of her. She stresses honesty rather than candidness, truth rather than the whole truth. Apart from whatever harsh judgments he makes, this option invites questions to find out more and more.

♀ Partial-disclosure women invite men to seek the rest of the story.

3.      She refuses. She demands that he honor her desire to keep her past to herself. If she doesn’t spread moral virtue across the way she lives now, she comes across as phony when trying to keep her sexual past secret.

♀ Phony women have the worst of traits for marriage. They are not their natural selves before marriage, and they become another woman when their true self emerges after marriage. Men marry expecting her not to change, but she does, and he’s torpedoed for having married the wrong woman.

4.      She refuses. She keeps her sexual past private and sacred between her and her Maker. This works under one condition: She lives her life by living up to the expectations of someone higher, her Maker. Moral standards and expectations flood other parts of her life, which makes her unmarried sexual past appear shameful.

♀ Women that refuse to reveal their shame paint themselves with glory to a man.

[More on her sexual history appears in posts 121 and 111.]

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