In this series that explains men, it’s time to revisit that both sexes have three natural urges and women often play their cards poorly.
Men are driven to overcome Nature and other barriers, compete with men, and shape human events. They just need a place to flop, eat, and throw their things. They want the freedom to pursue their nature as hunter-conquerors and target high value prey. For example, men don’t mount rabbit heads in their den or pursue women they find unappealing.
The female nature has three primal urges that males easily take for granted. Women are driven to nest, nurture, and nestle with loved ones. They need a brighter future for them and theirs. They want help when they need it in a world they cannot dominate. Women have to negotiate, trade off, and even ‘train’ a man to help pursue her interests. For example, they can rule the rooster, if they empower him to rule the roost.
Women for years have proclaimed that men are only after sex. For personal and political reasons, females rationalize that they deserve and can enjoy without penalty the perquisites of the male nature. These assumptions mislead women into doing all manner of wrong things dealing with men. The result is that women morph into more masculine characters.
When women don’t exploit their female nature, men respond unfavorably. When women don’t appreciate their femaleness to the fullest, men don’t either. When women act like guys, men treat them like guys. If men marry such women, they don’t stay married forever—very feminine females make men shift back into their conquering manliness.
[More on sex differences appear at posts 124, 112, 95, 83, 74, 63, 53, 43, 35, 29, and 4 below.]
