March 27, 2008...6:13 pm
149. The high cost of cheap sex—VI
Ω Women feel lonely and fear more of the same. To ease their anxiety, they provide sex without testing a new man’s interest for other than sex. They come across as desperate, and it kills manly respect.
Ω Female libido unshackled without marriage puts females in uniform to play the male game—fast hook up, temporary link up, perhaps semi-permanent shack up, and split up. (Eighty percent fail of marriages that follow shack up.)
Ω The Marrying Man pool shrinks. So few women qualify for his expectations and standards.
Ω Female sexual freedom: Having the right to do it, doesn’t make it right—especially when the trickle-down effect reaches children.
Ω Cheating husbands are blamed for breaking vows. However, other women complete the hook up. As with unmarried pregnancy, males are blamed for what females control. Thus, ever enlarging disrespect for the opposite sex emerges and grows out of female sexual freedom.
Ω A woman that makes herself easy or convenient for unmarried sex tells a man subliminally that her value is minimal, she’s common. Every other woman can do what she does. So, extraordinariness doesn’t accrue to her. Men seek to marry an extraordinary woman.
[More about the high cost of cheap sex appears at posts 138, 99, 84, 39, and 2. Scrolling down works best, but search can be made on the number with a dot and space following.]
2 Comments
May 8, 2008 at 1:01 pm
Ω “A woman that makes herself easy or convenient for unmarried sex tells a man subliminally that her value is minimal, she’s common. Every other woman can do what she does. So, extraordinariness doesn’t accrue to her. Men seek to marry an extraordinary woman.”
Surely this only applies to ordianry looking women. Isn’t it true that men seek to marry an EXTRAORDINARY-LOOKING WOMAN? Regardless of her sexualness? Is this true of not? This is what I have belived.
May 9, 2008 at 5:37 am
Miss Dawn,
Men seek to conquer, not marry, the EXTRAORDINARY-LOOKING WOMAN. She’s ‘big game’ for the hunt.
Men seek to MARRY an extraordinary woman. They assess many factors that make her attractive, likeable, respected, grateful, and helpful to him. Sex is a given, fixed in value as convenient and frequent, but little else. Extraordinariness is the right combo of the other factors for him. AGM
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