April 21, 2008...5:01 pm
174. Chaste courtship works—Part 7
♫ Girls that stick with teen abstinence and protective chastity teach boys to respect, honor, and step up to meeting female standards and expectations as men. Otherwise, men don’t learn the basics that women of their ‘generation’ expect to live with as adults. (The ‘generation’ changes every six or seven years, because the youngest teens redefine the pop culture that frequently and carry adolescent values into adulthood.)
♫ Attractive mystery, modest attitude, harmonized makeup, and discreet boob-cover sells femaleness sans sex. Her overall attractiveness rather than erotic presence broadens a man’s interest in her. This decelerates his urge to merge, because he sees no easy way to conquer. So, the chase foretells lots of fruitless effort. He soon learns that he must first conquer her spirit and character, which is impractical without cherishing her, pledging himself, or lying like hell. Her feminine resistance slows and delays accomplishment of his goal. Thus, she controls the battle of wits and wills.
♫ Sex deferred until marriage maximizes her as a highly feminine matrimonial target. Only a ‘giant of a man’ in his eyes, that is himself, his royal studliness, could beat out all those other competitors for her hand made evermore valuable by her impenetrable chastity.
♫ When all women cut way back on providing unmarried sex, the effective rationing makes men sell themselves more assertively. By force of habit and drive to succeed, this turns them into more dependable investors in, and guardians of, female interests.
[More about making caste courtships work at posts 163, 154, 143, 108, 107, and 100. Scroll down sequentially or search by the number with a dot and space following.]
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