☼ When he shows interest, she starts out as targeted sex object. Her yielding confirms it. Hunters stop aiming at game already put down—except for booty call.
☼ To each man interested in her, she’s a sex object. She yields and becomes something else. She does not yield and becomes something better.
☼ Withholding unmarried sex is the most valuable way to shift a man’s focus to feminine interests, especially away from male dominance.
☼ He keeps looking for her weaknesses to get her in bed. While doing so, he learns to appreciate her other qualities and strengths that benefit him.
☼ Female dominance works indirectly, beneath conscious thought. Her insistence on unmarried chastity forces him to choose: Either depart or enlarge his interest in all the other wonderful things she has to offer and qualities she has to charm his life.
☼ Unmarried chastity with a man enables her to orchestrate his interests gently but deliberately through this sequence: girlfriend, sweetheart, fiancé, bride, wife. It’s her path to feminine glory.
☼ Yielding empowers him to pursue this: hook up, link up, and maybe shack up until his freedom calls, and they split up. It’s his path to masculine glory.
☼ Conquest weakens his interests in her. Weaker interests require less effort and intensity for one woman and enable him to spread his interests elsewhere.
NOTE: The youngest generation gets it right. “Young women Reclaim Self-Respect and Find It’s Not Bad to Be Good” It’s a quote from the dust cover of girls gone MILD by Wendy Shalit. She also authored A Return To Modesty, Discovering The Lost Virtue. I recommend both to parents and all females seeking to spend their life with one man. Both books taught me the deepness of the female nature.
[More about virtual virginity appears in posts 181, 169, 158, 147, 136, 125, 96, 70, 51, 44, and 25. Scroll down or search for the number with a dot following.]
3 Comments
03/03/2009 at 7:14 pm
Hi, what if the man is in love and they waited a long while before having sex? What is the outcome then? I have seen couples that have had sex before marriage that are happy. If a man really cares about a woman, will he still lose some interest after being a “conquorer?”
Your Highness Sillylovesongs,
His loss of interest after conquest has nothing to do with her but with his hormonal drive to spread seed. Two things combine to neutralize it: His character traits such as commitment, integrity, and sense of personal responsibility for another person, and magnetized emotions such as mutual love and devotion. Both work to self-contain the urge.
Your couples apparently have two things in common: Waiting a long time provided the benefits of virtual virginity. Plus, the women evidently chose men with female-friendly character traits. These choices enabled wives to get husbands to bond with them and override masculine primal urges. This makes his post-conquest loss of interest inconsequential.
Guy
03/04/2009 at 6:34 pm
Those women seem to have better batting averages than the waiters in today’s society.
Your Highness Easybreezy,
You may be right. However, I suspect their batting average is built on one-base hits. Many will take too big a lead off base and be picked off before they can round to home. (Let each base equate to a decade of marriage.)
Guy
10/21/2009 at 8:53 pm
After the wedding night, what keeps the husband interested and faithful?
Your Highness Love Like No Other,
You may want to check out the CONTENTS page and look for the series titled: Make Mr. Promiscuous Faithful.
Guy