© Unmarried sex causes couples to over-commit and under-connect.
© Until she yields sex, her value goes up increasingly to each man chasing her. People instinctively value highly what they cannot have.
© Everybody makes mistakes. Recovery is everything, and virtual virginity provides it for past sexual mistakes.
© Avoiding life as an ex comes easier to the woman that elevates and honors her sexual assets above marriage.
© Refusing to have unmarried sex forces a man to prove himself worthy of her and capable of fulfilling her expectations for home and family. Else, he’s after sex and not her.
© Scoring with a hard-to-get woman elevates a man’s sense of significance, but it’s more ego than conviction.
© The woman that a man respects and honors adds to his convicted sense of significance, whether they are sex partners or not.
© Refusing to have sex with an attractive man requires strength of character to keep from turning him off. Hard-headed feminine gentleness helps.
© A woman’s biggest challenge is to keep from being eager or desperate to have a boyfriend, dates, sex, or whatever else she thinks she has to have for the short term.
[More about virtual virginity appears in posts 198, 181, 169, 158, 147, 136, 125, 96, 70, 51, 44, and 25. Scroll down or search for the number with a dot and space following.]
3 Comments
05/31/2008 at 4:53 pm
Hi AGM! Magnificent points as always! You would be truly doing a beneficial thing for me and my recovering femininity if you could elaborate on :
“Refusing to have sex with an attractive man requires strength of character to keep from turning him off. Hard-headed feminine gentleness helps.”
What do you mean by “to keep from turning him off.”? Actully I dont get the whole thing… Looking forward to it. Keep up the good work!
AGM responds: If attracted to a man, high quality pays in the long run—think, dress, and act feminine, ladylike, un-guy-like, and willing to be dependent on a good man. She makes it hard on herself. It takes resolve and character. On the flip side, easy for her or him makes booty.
About the phrase hard-headed feminine gentleness:
-Hard-headed means thinking that keeps both her and his emotions in check for whatever’s happening, especially when passions flare up.
-Feminine means using typical female thought processes with no effort to clarify into man-think. He should have to work to make himself worthy of her, so she can see what he’s made of.
-Gentleness means to control situations with silent forbearance of his innocent and unintended offenses. (None of this, of course, applies in the event of abuse or worse.)
Not turning him off means that he’s not discouraged. He wants to see her again.
05/31/2008 at 4:54 pm
Oh and what the heck is ” hard headed”? Stubborn?
AGM responds: Pleasantly so, yes, and used to get her way in the matters at hand.
06/04/2008 at 10:33 am
Thank you so much AGM. I absolutly get it!