The squabble-prevention checklist continues:
♥ Keeping him is easy but not simple, once she learns to use her female strengths.
♥ Feminine brightens his day. As one woman put it, femininity adds color to a man’s B&W world. [Alison A. Armstrong, Keys to the Kingdom, p.151]
♥ People respect those who are different, unique, and powerful within themselves. Her power thrust in his face offends, however, whereas well-controlled internal strength is admired.
♥ Virginity, devotion, and marriage are recoverable. People make so many mistakes that recovery is everything. (Details in posts titled Virtual Virginity.)
♥ She’s a keeper, once she learns to keep him.
♥ Hook up but no call? Moved in but no joy? Married but no peace? Then change herself, because men don’t or won’t.
♥ Women are the maintenance experts, men go along for a smooth and maintenance-free ride.
♥ Learn the difference: Self interest motivates everyone. Self-centeredness motivates you. Us-centeredness motivates us. Selfishness de-motivates others.
♣ Feminism sours his day.
♣ Attacks unsettle his day.
♣ If she’s never satisfied, it drives his thoughts to other options. (The wedding signaled she was satisfied with him, so dissatisfaction means she changed and is no longer the woman he married.)
[The checklist started at post 296. Scroll down or search by the number with a dot and space following it.]