o | o Take modest, classy, and feminine apparel, combine it with exquisite personal grooming, and mix it with reluctance to uncover her inner self. These send many subliminal messages about her feminine mystery, gentle neatness, extra carefulness, public self-confidence, obvious self-respect, high self-esteem, strong self-image, sophisticated self-interests. She’s known as the greatest challenge to men: A woman so put together that she defies being conquered.
o | o Take radical attire and grooming, combine it with appearance detractors—rings, pins, tattoos, slovenliness—and mix it with eagerness to disclose and even expose her inner self. Such a female at any age sends messages about her self-loathing, dishonesty to herself, adolescent value system, rebellious spirit, disdain for all but her own in-crowd, disrespect for authority figures, contempt for parents, unwillingness to accept others, inability to love someone in a healthful manner. She puts radical fashion ahead of decency, popularity in the radical community ahead of respect of others. She’s seen as a castoff only for men that are losers in society: Conquering a woman that screwed up in the head is more burden than prize to the Right Man of another woman.
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Hi. Had to briefly delurk to say THANK YOU. Good to know I’m not a lost cause after all.
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Re: tattoos
~in recent years I’ve considered mine a curse/pox upon what’s left of my femininity and life as a whole…as such, it will be REMOVED by year’s end if not sooner! (Conforming to decency isn’t so bad, I always say…I understand that eschewing such radical accouterments–and thus REALLY standing out–is the “new rebellion” these days, no?) Thanks again and keep up the great work.
**resumes sifting through the archives**