Each attractive female has what he’s after, because male hormones push for sex. When sex is cheap, he looks for easy stuff rather than spin wheels screening for the female of his dreams.
Her rejection spawns bitterness, aggression, and violence. Rejection imagined as extremely personal turns boys, and those men who can’t handle it, toward extreme aggressiveness and even violence.
When No Sex without Marriage is the strategy used by most women and honored by girls, males do not so easily take rejection personal. If rebuffed, they assume her character and moral standards reject his invitation, so females are not rejecting him personally.
This turns men away from sex for its own sake and pushes them to compete for a woman with sex as follow-on. This requires and males accept that they suppress aggressiveness and violence. They make themselves more female-friendly.
In this way, the sexual habits of most females stifle male aggression and violence toward individuals.
Please note: this strategy also requires a limit to petting and necking outside the context of marriage. A man has a right to be offended when a woman has him aiming for the moon with her behavior then aborts lift-off at the last minute.
AGM says: Thanks, your highness, I like your imaginative phrasing.
Well women as a whole will never revert back to “no sex before marriage”
And women rejected get crazy as well. I know this because I am amazed at the murderous, sinister rage that is stirred within me with the gentlest rejection.
The Crush, Single White female, Fatal Attraction are movies that while some may pass off as extreme- but the feelings that lead to such acts are more common than one may think.
Funny that we live in a society where every thing is about the cover of the book: body type, facial strcuture, type of clothes, type of car, how much money you have (or even worse term your net “worth”) AGM says: When women accept men of lesser value in character—personal responsibility, integrity, honesty, morality, faithfulness, family centeredness—and devalue female strengths such as mystery, modesty, monogamy, manners, and marriage, then society defaults to the things you decry.
These things are equal for men and women today and media brainwashing has negated any influence of otherwise.
Men reject women all the time based on personal stuff- things we can’t control- HOW WE LOOK.
I once thought of becoming a female serial killer like Eileen Wurnos, only I wanted to torture guys and then castrate them and save each of my victims penis in a jar of formeldahyde. And I’d keep all the jars in a pink velvet treasure chest next to my vanity mirror- and listen to all the voices of men (in my mind) who rejected me and treated me like crap and soothe my terrible loliness and rage with peeking into the chest for relief-
Anyway, this will be a great underground book. And don’t get all butthurt, men have Hannibal Lecter don’t they?
Anyway, as much as I love this site- some of this stuff triggers me in a way that I marvel at.
All I ask is that men take responsibility for themselves, their hormones and thier actions. I’m, not asking them to change, I’m just asking them to stop playing the victim. It’s just not manly to be a victim of the “feminists.” AGM says: Women, not men, are the victims of feminists. Men reap the blessings of Feminism at the expense of women, children, and families.
And if men never settle down with one woman- so what? Serve them right to end up in an old persons home with no kids or family- Not every “confirmed for life bachelor” is going to hit retirement age like Hugh Hefner. And oh the joy in my heart, when the REGRET starts to sink in for these guys. When they are old and broke, and lonely- all I will have to say is: You reap what you sow.
Hear, hear to Miss Dawn’s comment! Of course, women feel upset and angry when they rejected also. It’s a shocker, I know, but women have feelings too. The difference is that women aren’t raised with the same sense of entitlement as men, so women are less likely to act out violently when they are rejected (although it certainly does happen). When women are rejected, we are expected to understand that it must be because of some flaw of ours — we are too ugly, too fat, too old, too independent, too slutty, whatever. When men are rejected, they are given a free pass by people like the author of this blog, to blame it on the behavior of those horrible, mean women and feminists.
This site seems incredibly misandrist, i.e. hateful of men (as well as deeply misogynist). The author of this site does not expect men to exercise any personal responsibility, and he does expect women to bear the blame for men who behave badly. It is a deeply depressing view of human nature. I think men and women are capable of more and deserving of more than A Guy Maligned believes.
Laurie,
You said: “I think men and women are capable of more and deserving of more than A Guy Maligned believes.” You’re wrong about my beliefs.
Otherwise, I agree. I have lived to see both sexes more capable and deserving than today. They were also more respectful, respectable, and mutually dependent. They were better vow-keepers and parents. They breathed more intense personal responsibility into family and community, and less violence resulted. Mothers tamed boys, girls civilized teen boys, and wives domesticated husbands. Families and church-goers prayed together to stay together.
Men and women were more capable, deserved more, and got it. As a team, husband brightened the future by dominating the present, while wife brightened the present by dominating future concerns. That’s how teamwork succeeded then: Separate responsibilities fulfilled by equally responsible mates.
Guy