338. Sex as bait

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Fishing with sex as bait produces adverse effects and unintended consequences.  

·        It makes her a sex object, and she blames the man when not treated as she expects.

·        It kills her dominant strength: female modesty.

·        It reduces her credibility for discouraging, refusing, or rejecting a man—less pressure on him to do the right thing.

·        It shows she’s interested in accommodating men and sex as an important part of her lifestyle and self-interest.

·        It drives his curiosity away from her person and toward her body.

·        It satisfies more of his curiosity about her with each step taken toward nakedness and copulation.

·        It makes his conquest easier and the result of less time spent with her.

·        It satisfies his imagination about her body and weakens a female strength, feminine mystique.

·        It weakens her potential as keeper, but increases her value as booty.

·        It makes her ‘personal ad campaign’ lose effectiveness after his conquest.

·        It convinces her wrongly or makes her hope that sex will hold him.

·        It reveals her deference to his judgment about how they should proceed toward conquest.

·        It discloses her willingness for conquest by someone, anyone, or everyone.

·        It shows she’s neither skilled nor experienced enough to keep sex in the background and slow or stop his conquest.

·        It intensifies his immediate yearnings for sex—more pressure on her.

·        It misuses time spent together that could enable their courtship to mature.

·        It fails to fascinate him about her as she would like.

·        It generates too little of his curiosity about and imagination for fulfilling her hopes and dreams.

·        It fails to convert his non-sex oriented efforts into relationship habits that please her.

·        It makes courtship so uninvolved and immature that nothing survives when romantic love fades in a year or two.

Fishing for instant gratification works against the female.  

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