345. College girls: Dateless??? — Posts 216-230


What are dads paying for? One Duke University senior claimed she never had a date in college and knew no one that had.

Given all the sex on campus, this makes coed mean guys and booty? Does dad know what’s happening to his princess?

She can escape booty call, but she needs to abandon the guys’ game. It’s up to her and not him. The following themes or thoughts about previous articles may lead to new perspectives. (Search by the number and scroll down if not at top.)

 

216.   Never cherished? Blaming her ex?

 

216.   Never cherished? Blaming her ex?

 

 

217.   She appears desperate and disposable when everything’s easy for him.

218.   Female values shape campus social life except when they let men do it.

219.   Nagging herself produces unintended consequences.

220.   Feminine mystique slows the male mind for conquest.

221.   First date plants the seeds of no call, booty, or marriage.

222.   Commitment ain’t devotion.

223.   What guides our lives?

224.   Bonding for newlyweds.

225.   Mates differ, whether recognized or not.

226.   Just who are ‘friends with benefits’?

227.   What daughters should hear.

228.   More sex education

229.   Women copy men but fail, and ennui and depression set in.

230.   Virtue helps bonding.

Escape or dodge the booty label. See the CONTENT page in the blog header.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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5 responses to “345. College girls: Dateless??? — Posts 216-230

  1. Stacy

    Guy,

    I thought of WWNH when reading from “romances with wolves”
    http://www.leaderu.com/everystudent/sex/articles/wolves.html

    “This is how it works. Since “girls use sex to get love, and guys use love to get sex,” a couple will have sex before marriage. The girl does this to hold on to the relationship. The guy does it because he wants it even more than the relationship itself. Then, after the marriage, the woman has what she wants: a commitment from the man. So she doesn’t need to use sex to get him anymore. And, because she may be harboring resentment because he had sex with her before they were married, she is now not interested in sex. And the guy — who doesn’t treasure his wife because of the sex before marriage — still wants sex but not as a total bonding experience with his wife. It’s just sex, which she figures out. So, there is a lousy sex life in the marriage.”

    {…}

    “Sex is a mysterious thing that causes a deep bond between people, even if we call it “casual.” The problem is this: the more I bond with other girls, the less I’ll be able to bond with my future wife. It’s like a piece of skotch tape — the more you use it on different surfaces, the less it sticks to things. After awhile, it won’t stick to anything.”

  2. A.GuyMaligned

    Stacy,
    Thanks for the link to Romances with Wolves. The author accurately describes the mental discord that follows unmarried sex. It’s why the virtual virgininity that I write about works so well.
    Guy

  3. Well here’s another very interesting as well as apt piece of information! I write about this sort of thing on my blog and I see that you and I are very similar in views :-) I applaud you.

  4. boomer babe

    Now I know why GOD says NOT TO HAVE SEX UNTIL MARRIED its a losing game and it causes ‘fractured homes’ (the word broken isnt strong enough) When we read and obey the bible, we could avoid a lot of trouble

  5. boomer babe

    “I hate divorce” , said GOD. The bible also shows human failure. Not all bibical characters lived great moral lives, they (bibical characters) learned the hard way; King David and his kids. His son Absalom was heartbreaking.

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