Men aren’t as good as females at interpreting vocal and body language messages. However, regarding sex, men always read more hope than she intends.
© When a woman insists on formal dates, rituals, and protocols that elevate her in HER mind, he automatically assumes she’s far from pushover. But his hope lingers on.
© The more casual her approach to accepting dates, the more likely he assumes she accepts casual sex.
© How she programs her mind about herself conditions his thinking about her. If she thinks she’s not more than worthy of his time, effort, and money, he’ll treat her as less than she wants, and respect her less than she expects.
© Another self-fulfilling prophecy: She acts hardtoget long before they get to that subject, and so he treats her respectfully while awaiting her willingness to proceed beyond the formalities.
© Hardtoget charmingly and modestly expressed can dominate male dominance.
© Girls and women don’t require dates as prelude to sex, and so, in effect, men get by with passing gals around from man to man. Precisely the kind of woman most men try to screen out of contention for marriage.