Rejection of men for sex helps shape the dating world.
M In the battle of the sexes, rejection by an assertive lady merely means no score. Ridicule does not flow from it, so she gains value.
M Rejection aggressively expressed with a feminist flavor transmits ridicule. This ranks next to insignificance as a man’s greatest fear with a woman. It shifts him into fight mode to restore his dignity. Her value plummets.
M Yielding her greatest asset for little or nothing devalues her, because her sex partner does the benefit analysis singlehandedly and self-centeredly.
M She decides when to yield. He hopes sooner, but the greater his investment of Self—shared emotions, time, effort, money—the greater her value to him.
M If females look and act like sex objects, they gain temporary value with men but have difficulty making it permanent with a man. Yet, they blame men for responding as Nature dictates.
M Feminine assertiveness compliments a woman. It has far more bonding power than sex, because it earns respect that sex does not.
M Feminist aggressiveness doesn’t compliment women. It offends some men, turns off some others, and makes wusses of the rest. This fallout from Feminism helps corrupt dating as an institution.
If women build up their own value as dates, they can improve both men and dating. They need only abandon their ego in favor of their heart, discard their feminist politics in favor of their Nature, and suppress their general opinion of men when judging individuals.
