Women come first, because they determine the rules of life and its social and domestic games. Unfortunately, through immaturity, ignorance, or stupidity, many disregard or misuse their female nature.
God designed and Nature genetically and hormonally endows females with expertise to build and sustain relationship compatibility:
© Women are instinctively driven to nest, nurture, and nestle with loved ones. This instinctive drive holds society together in family units.
© A woman instinctively needs a brighter future for her and her children. Her nature seeks security of life, dependable relationships, and family cohesiveness. She seeks family, economic, and social stability. She seeks safety of health, life, and family. To fulfill such need, she has two options. Give of herself to a helpmate, or do it alone, lonesome, and perhaps eventually lonely, isolated, or desperate.
© A woman does not absolutely need a man, but she wants company or assistance at specific times in life. Her primal want is for a solid relationship with someone stronger and more influential in shaping events that impact her and her children. She wants help to brighten her future in a society dominated by powerful people, unexpected events, and catastrophes. She wants comfort in needy times and companionship for prevention of loneliness. (Doesn’t this qualify Mr. Good Enough as potential Mr. Right?) Intuitively she favors one man, because two will not knowingly share her except when one cuckolds the other.
© Women fear abandonment more than anything else. First by mother as little girl, then by father as bigger girl, and finally by her man.
© Time focus—Women focus their doing on the present and their thinking on the future. Most of their present-day concerns and activities are handled as the result of earlier anticipation and planning.
Handling of sex issues other than coitus determine a woman’s success with her primal drive, need, want, fear, and time focus. This means men, next post.
Agree with the misuse of the female nature. Have you noticed, though, that despite all the things that we do or don’t, it is never enough? No matter what we do, there will always be some sort of social misinterpretation and misuse of the female nature. If we execute what -weather by instinct, personality or whatever- we need to do, we are either not feminine enough, not motherly enough, not caring enough, too needy, or simply bitches?
Your Highness Leopardginy,
Yes, I have. But I notice too that it’s predominantly females that lead the way to ever more criticism.
No one is good enough, when measured by the standards of busybodies. You just don’t fill the mold that they want you to fill.
Women of your ilk are much too smart for the political-minded to convince a majority to join their position. So, activists divide and conquer. You describe female criticism that results from the social war that radical feminists started over four decades ago.
They divided Womanhood by politicizing social values. First, they bred contempt for men ostensibly to conquer male dominance legally, politically, and economically. Next, they killed the social construct of the Lady and demeaned chastity and femininity. More recently they invented political correctness.
Now, compounded over several decades, women are criticized for whatever goes against—however minutely–the feminist agenda. Especially anything respectful of men or that honors feminine, virtuous, and ladylike behaviors.
Womanhood must be kept divided for their political purposes. If you don’t help advance their ideological agenda, then you ARE the problem. You will be criticized. Ignore it. Trust your intuition, self-sufficiency, and self-interest.
Strength of character shines out of your questions. Stick with what you have where you’re at. This was originally a nation of individuals. They built our greatness. You register with me as an impressive and influential one, and our nation needs millions more inquisitive thinkers just like you.
Blessings on all your endeavors. Hope to hear from you again.
Guy