The female nature craves the attention of men! But women have been dumbed down about it.
☼ Feminists made it fashionable. Women automatically suspect compliments to be sexual advances. Her reaction smacks the guy that he’s not trusted. He sends compliment, and feedback says ‘turkey’. He could be valuable for something other than a relationship, but she damaged the connection.
☼ The female gender appears dumb, when women too easily take offense. Appearance counts, because men feast or bypass females with their eyes. Resisting a man’s well intended charm makes her appear dumb, and women reflect on each other. To men frustrated by the actions of one, women are all just more of the same.
☼ Men don’t see unwanted sexual advances as unwanted. They hit to determine whether wanted or not. Females make mini-judgments based on who and what he is, who and what she is, and where and when it occurs. It calls for highly complex judgments that guys hope won’t be made against them. Consequently, the masculine hit is merely an invitation for her to judge him, her, time, and place. All else is hope, and as Emerson said: The world turns on hope. So, why do women take such offense to these natural happenings? They have more than what they need to handle any guy.