Over the past three decades, Feminism expanded the natural battle of the sexes into a political war of the sexes. Trying to kill male dominance, feminists expanded their political capabilities. They made great strides economically, politically, and legally, but women lost the ability, skill, and patience to keep a man.
- Females that dress ladylike, classy, or even prissy are of the now-distant past. Women abuse male preference for females to look good. Mutual advantages disappear.
- Mystery decays to full disclosure. Comfortable attire decays to sloppy. Complimentary modesty decays to skin tight. Simple decays to erotic. Grooming decays to natural. Pregnancy decays to beer belly.
- Manly respect decays, as females appear less attractive by choice and less worthy of much masculine effort. Manly disinterest rises for everything but sex.
- Guilt and personal redemption fade, and blame and finger pointing explode. Relationships spiral into collapse or unhappiness.
- Less unconditional respect for the opposite sex translates to less womanly influence to counter male dominance. The original mission of Feminism was to overcome patriarchy, but male independence increases and family responsibility decreases.
- Women play the feminist game with political correctness, which pushes Truth aside. Men respond with whatever’s needed to continue frequent and convenient access to sex, and it becomes easier with each new generation.
- Modern women starve for male attention uncluttered with sex or innuendo. Under threat of sexual harassment and PC, men are conditioned to not pay compliments to females.
The fallout from Feminism continues to pile up.
Really explains what is wrong with us all….and if we do the opposite, things will get better between men and ladies ….tho I would not call many females ladies at this moment in time!
L.
Everyone needs retraining.
I’ve had it all wrong for 49 years.
I’ve been lost and misguided.
I have been/am guilty of many of these foibles.
My proof that I have been wrong … I am alone and without the one thing I yearn for … a good, kind, respectful man to be a companion to.
I didn’t like the premise of your blog when I first began reading your posts (just today did I find you)
but as night draws on I’ve become a fan.
Thank you for the guidance … even at my advanced age I can learn new *tricks*.
Fitcetera,
There is always hope! I have several friends who have been blessed by a good man entering their lives in their middle to later years
…never give up hope!
Although I have been happily married for 27 years (albeit with lots of ups and downs and learning experiences) I fervently wish I had been taught to appreciate and esteem men as a young person. I would have enjoyed my single years more and been a better wife to my husband earlier.
Use your regret to pass on wisdom to those younger women who are wise enough to listen to your advice!
“Females that dress ladylike, classy, or even prissy are of the now-distant past.”
My mother is this woman- in public when she goes out, and I’ve mentioned this before, always looks good. Yesterday she came to visit me- (in a stylish black suit with her hair just done, coming from work). I asked her- Mom, do men still hit on you? She said- “3 today.” She is 62.
Dear Fitcetera-I’m so glad you’re here. Keep reading. It starts to sink in. God bless you.
Fitcetera!
Welcome girl! You’ve come a long way baby!
“Modern women starve for male attention uncluttered with sex or innuendo. Under threat of sexual harassment and PC, men are conditioned to not pay compliments to females.”
Ain’t that the truth!!!
Fitcetera – For a good guide on men, Dr. Laura’s book, “The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands” is a must read. It was the first book on marriage that told me just how important sex is to my husband, how action and not words indicate my love for him, and how the little details (like what color curtains we put in the kitchen) generally don’t matter to him that much. It’s so weird how unlike women men really are, and we are never told this! We are definitely NOT equal. Once you realize what’s important to men and how uncomplicated they are, life is actually really easy!! If you read it, and come here daily for reinforcements, I bet you’ll be dating a quality man in no time!
Your Preciousness Robin,
You’re right about Dr. Laura’s book. She’s the greatest.
Guy
Ive heard someone say, that women DID dress more feminine and prissy UNTIL the Berlin wall came down in the late 80s