We joke and credit blondes predominantly as eggheads. We miss this boat: Dumbness flows out of adolescent-minded females that carry the blight through adulthood. They fall behind growing up and can’t recover from restricted education, knowledge, and common sense.
Most women have been duped into playing male games. Belief in the use of sex for ennobling, capturing, and holding a man makes women restrict their education, knowledge, and common sense. With adolescent certainty, they ignore the important to favor the exciting.
Men seek knowledge of a woman’s body, but it’s a man’s imagination that keeps his interest focused on her:
- The less he knows, the more he seeks. The more she’s covered, the more he wonders. The more mysterious she appears, the more interested he becomes. The more interested he becomes, the more he wants to be around her.
- Exposed skin kills a man’s imagination, because it shifts his curiosity to those sexually suggestive or stimulating areas still unknown. Stripped down to a thong, for example, only one curiosity remains and his imagination intensifies only about copulation. And conquest kills her ultimate asset.
- She discourages a man’s curiosity by not covering her flaws, and his interest rushes elsewhere—and not reliably to what else she can offer him.
- Winning the heart of one man doesn’t strengthen her self-respect nearly as much as winning the hearts of several men. A man’s love is founded on his respect for a woman, and his respect floats on the foundation of her self-respect. So, the stronger her self-respect, the more intensely the man she ultimately chooses can love her.
- Adolescent-mindedness pushes females into trying to win the heart of one man without keeping some others available for his competition.
A woman’s quality as potential mate stimulates a man’s imagination. However, it arises better from packaging than advertising, actions than words, and especially the promise he sees than the promises she makes.
I agree men try to learn about you at every opportunity. When a man probes too much, asking for information that is too personal, what is the best way for a woman to deflect his questions without coming across as hostile or secretive? (Or should I even care how it comes across?)
Your Princesstial Highness Abigail,
How about this? Smilingly ask, “Why do you ask?” Your voice inflections can endlessly vary the impact from super friendly to very hostile; it’s your choice.
Then, let his answer change the subject, and if it doesn’t, disregard his answer and change the subject yourself. This tactic leaves mystery behind, especially if you keep smiling. He can only imagine what your answer would have been. More curiosity expands imagination which drives up his interest about gaining more knowledge, which brings him back for more of you.
You should care how you come across, because you impact yourself too. Also, smiling avoids hostility, and ignoring his original question rather than pushing back keeps you from seeming secretive.
Guy
Smile and pout just a tiny bit and say, Why don’t you ask me something fun? Like what my favorite color is? (Or my dream vacation?)
Divert divert divert
And if you smile big enough and lean in just close enough for him to smell your perfume he’ll never notice you’re diverting… 
Men are fun that way…
Thanks Guy and LB. This is going to take a lot of practice for me as I’m a bit socially retarded.
Your Beautifulness Abigail,
Congratulations! You’re blessed. It means you’ve not fallen for all the blather out there that misleads females into trying to please men.
Guy
P.S. Add this onto the last sentence: “…just in order to have a man of their own.
G.
Now, not every “blonde at heart” woman is like that. My daughter is smart (gifted), definitely not a feminist, Christian, and is more mature than most young women her age (23), yet she lacks common sense. I must tell this story: One day, she went out for the mail and when she came in, she sat down and read it. Then, she got up and started to go out again. Her husband asked her where she was going, and she said she was going out to get the mail. He said, but you just got it. She said, “Yes, but I forgot to get it yesterday.” He said, “Now, just think about that a minute….” A lot of gifted men and women are just “different” – they think differently, so it’s probably not a good idea to pass judgment on every “blonde” just because some are lacking in morals.
Your Exceptionalness Rose,
I tried purposely to avoid blonde bashing. My second sentence shifts so-called “dumbness” to adolescent-minded females. They may be more numerous than blondes, and I know more stereotypical.
Guy
Myself and one of my daughters (my 22 yo) are rather absent minded like that too. It can be detrimental at times and I try to pay more attention to my life, but it still happens sometimes.
Your Exceptionalness Princess Rita,
I fear I may have not been clear enough. I intended to focus solely on ‘dumbness’ as women display it dealing with men and their man. (Absent-mindedness is a far different domain, and I claim original ownership. Blondes and others have to buy the rights from me.)
Guy
Ha ha-I don’t believe it Guy!
“Winning the heart of one man doesn’t strengthen her self-respect nearly as much as winning the hearts of several men. A man’s love is founded on his respect for a woman, and his respect floats on the foundation of her self-respect. So, the stronger her self-respect, the more intensely the man she ultimately chooses can love her.”
I’ve found that after working on my own self-respect, my love spends a lot more time bringing home gifts, organizing nights out and fixing up plumbing and such. I didn’t realize the connection until now =)
This website is so nice!
“Adolescent-mindedness pushes females into trying to win the heart of one man without keeping some others available for his competition.”
Very true.
Lady Kaikou