802. Keepers for Keepers — Assortment 22


  • Women seek commitment before conquest and expect devotion afterward. They expect the reverse of what men do easiest. [13]
  • If she treats him as king before their wedding day, or fails to do so afterward, she weakens his potential as a forever husband. [10]
  • Separation is not far off, if a couple doesn’t develop an enduring kind of love to replace romantic love that fades before their third year together. [65]
  • The female nature seeks to live up to something bigger such as God, her man, her children. Men must learn to live that way, which puts teaching in the hands of females, and leadership by example works best. [18]
  • The less respect that women show the male gender, the more irresponsible individual men become for helping fulfill female hopes and dreams for home and family. [18]
  • Virtual virginity substitutes for the real thing. It can hold a man’s attention while feminine mystique, female modesty, admirable virtue, and moral standards capture his devotion.  [25]
  • A man leads two roles with every woman to whom he is attracted. He is one way before he conquers her and something else afterward. [27]

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6 responses to “802. Keepers for Keepers — Assortment 22

  1. anonymous

    What exactly does treating him as king entail? How should one treat him before marriage?

    Your Beauteousness Anonymous,
    Answers will be in next two articles, #803 and $804. Thanks for the prompting.
    Guy

  2. Jessica

    Yes…how should she treat him BEFORE marriage. I need help in this area as I think I’ve been treating my bf as king.

    Your Delightfulness Jessica,
    Answers will be in next two articles, #803 and #804. Thanks for the prompting.
    Guy

  3. Lisa

    How does a man act after he conquers?

    Your Highness Lisa,

    Welcome aboard, good to hear from you.

    Basically, a man’s growth of respect for her gained as she refused his conquering spirit slows and perhaps comes to a halt after conquest.

    But, of course, he, she, and the situation are much more complex. I’ve addressed how he changes numerous times, but it’s scattered through the blog. I’ll work on a better response, but it may take several days.

    Guy

  4. Easybreezy

    ■The female nature seeks to live up to something bigger such as God, her man, her children. Men must learn to live that way, which puts teaching in the hands of females, and leadership by example works best

    OK- the Bible says women should not teach men?

    Your Spriteliness Easybreezy,
    I’m unsure about your last question. Agree, disagree, questioning the bible, or something else?
    Guy

    • Princess Rita

      Hi EasyBreezy…came across your question today. Taken in context, the bible is referring to women teaching men in the church setting.

      We all “teach” people every day how to treat us by the boundaries we set and keep. It’s subtle and doesn’t require lengthy speeches, books or a blackboard.

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