- He honors her wishes for less pressure, as he seeks to conquer her. Unless he’s phony, which takes other testing, the degree, willingness, and pleasantness with which he backs off indicates his respect and potential for devoting himself to her.
- Ideal mothers civilize and teach boys to measure up to female values, standards, and expectations. Ideal fathers domesticate and teach boys for family responsibility according to manly values, standards, and expectations. (Such idealistic upbringing strongly favors the female gender.)
- The seeds of matrimony require constant watering of his mind and interests with indirectness, patience, and charm that sprinkles her modesty, mystery, restraint, femininity, female virtue, uniqueness, and self-respect all over him. She remains the same extraordinary woman he married.
- Modern wives do the opposite of what works to keep a husband. They make the institution of marriage of, by, and for mothers and children. This reverses the natural order of domestic life, as men see and honor it.
- Perhaps thinking it’s their due, modern females have expanded the female ego to a disturbance level that almost equals the male ego. This unnatural change challenges men in unworkable ways and produces the opposite of what men seek living with a woman.
- Mature but not adolescent-minded husbands like for their wives’ appearance to attract the attention of other men. Compliments to her, for example, make husband look good. It’s her reaction that may bother husband.
816. RANDOM THOUGHTS — Group 13
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■”Perhaps thinking it’s their due, modern females have expanded the female ego to a disturbance level that almost equals the male ego. This unnatural change challenges men in unworkable ways and produces the opposite of what men seek living with a woman….”
I have no idea what the differences are between the male vs. female ego. They seem to be the same.
Why is it that men assume that women have no ego? No pride? A sense of hating to lose? Of desiring soverinity over ones life? To not be bossed around? Fear of humiliation? Disdain for embarrassment?
Women have egos!
Your Exceptionalness Miss Dawn,
Thanks. Once again you’ve triggered an article with questions that beg understanding. See #817 to be published early on 1/29.
Guy
How could any of that be unnatural? It is most certaily natural in a fallen world!
Interesting point, Miss Dawn, as I’ve also wondered the same in the past. Looking forward to the article!
When a man’s ego is hurt, he is hurt to the core of his being…When a woman’s feelings are hurt, she is hurt to the core of her being. Men must have admiration, especially from his significant other. Women must have approval and love, especially from her significant other. These are generalities. Obviously, women have egos and men have feelings, but nature ranks accordingly in the above example.
Your Delightfulness Stepanie,
Nicely and accurately stated. Well done.
Guy
Sir Guy,
What exactly is a man’s ego and how do feminine women best respond to it?
Your Prettiness AwaitingMrGoodEnough,
See if articles 368 and 817 respond to your need.
Guy