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TRAIT, HABIT, BEHAVIOR |
ALPHA |
BETA |
GAMMA |
| Sense of independence: | Strongly independent; not to get away so much as to attract, hold on, and keep at responsibilities and devotions such as business, job, family, hobby. | Less independent than alpha, but he keeps reaching for more out of ego satisfaction rather than devotion to responsibilities. | Highly dependent on someone else. |
| Sense of justice: | Fairness rules from a moral base; he seeks quick justice so as to forgive & forget easily and move onward and upward. | Ambivalent about moral base for justice; tends to favor fashion and popularity. | Sees equality as better than fairness, because it’s the female preference. |
| Sense of responsibility: | Strong on all matters of supreme interest to him. | Careful about accepting it; weak on biggest & very important issues. | Fearful; can be strong on small matters, but inclined toward CYA. |
| Sensitive to female needs and body language? | Nope, not usually. | Nope, not usually except older betas and those leaning toward gamma. | Yes, he earns female respect by doing so. |
| Thrives on: | Confusion, chaos, & conflict. | Seeking agreement & cooperation. | Peace, quiet, stability. |
| True allegiance to his role: | Neither jealous nor envious; compassionate without patriarchal malice; lives by strong moral compass. | Insensitive about others until taught otherwise by females and life. | Overly considerate of others to the point of sycophancy. |
| Vulnerable to females? | Yes to the very highly respected and the helpless by his measure. | Highly selective; yes to beauties, no to less endowed. | To a fault. |
Women may be attracted to a particular male persona, but they don’t choose to marry on that basis without making a mistake. Alpha, beta, and gamma are mere labels that classify men according to strengths and weaknesses. Women know to look deeper, and this series hopefully provided info for doing it.
Tomorrow’s post #930 ends this series. The alpha, beta, gamma description of females follows as post 931; keep this in mind: Only two are suitable for marriage.
Loving your insight in this series and cannot wait until the female equivalent!
Very Insightful Sir Guy! Love it! The point about alpha males thriving on confusion, chaos and conflict can be especially perplexing to women who did not grow up around this type of man (or any men at all ie., raised by a single mom).
Our second born son hit puberty hard and grumpy has become the new norm for him. The other day he came in the door with a big smile on his face and it turns out he had just had a good old-fashioned fist fight with his friend. Both boys sustained minor injuries and drew blood and were perfectly delighted with the fight! And mom had a cheerful son for the rest of the evening! Who knew?
Jill F.