Whether young or old, married or unmarried, females are never more valuable than when they look beautiful but unavailable, appealing but untouchable, dreamlike but real. Women say to themselves it’s easy for some but not them. They miss the boat, because higher value to males aka beautiful is possible for all females. It’s described below.
Modern females lose more than they win except for capturing boyfriends temporarily with sex. Females can earn greater respect, attract more permanent boyfriends and faithful husbands, and gain leverage over men. To do so, they must focus more on their unique natural beauty and less on men they deem attractive. They must focus more on their appearance and making all men dream of having one woman, whether it is her or not.
Men aren’t as simple as women like to think. Women pay too much attention to what men claim motivates instead of what actually motivates them. As a result, women misjudge what beauty means to men, and females overvalue sexual beauty, thinness, and other pop fashions. Females think too little of themselves, spend too much time and money on the wrong things, and take too little advantage of their intrinsic nature and unique value to men.
For example, sexual beauty means a lot to men but women overvalue it, use it for bait, and thus go too far. Pretty means the face and hair well prepared, and it charms men. Attractive means well put together in shape, attire, and grooming, and it holds manly interest. Beautiful means pretty and attractive combined, which makes men dream. If she charms and attracts his interest, he dreams about her, which she craves. Each woman has the ability to make some man dream of her, but yielding sex shifts his dreaming to the back burner.
From his interest and dreams, he becomes motivated to close the deal with her. Patience means she waits for him to prove that he as the product is worthy of her as the purchaser. When women play their game instead of his, sex gets pushed to the back burner.
So, beauty is nothing more than charm and attractiveness combined in forms tasteful to all men. It bypasses thin, fat, and other flaws, because the male gender appreciates beauty even if flawed. I neither promote nor demote thin or fat; I just try to put both in secondary perspective to the rest of the woman. Time and personal resolve govern thin and fat. Daily appearance governs the relationship scene, because men focus primarily on the present, especially around beauty in females.
To make all men look and some man dream about her, a woman needs much mirror time daily for face and hair, good taste shown with complimenting attire, and much practice grooming to continually improve her overall appearance. Shortcuts to beautiful don’t usually work, because she uses female instead of male expectations. Displays of deep cleavage, thigh insides, and bikini strings will stir men to action and even capture boyfriends, but men only buy in with temporary commitment. Her as ultimate challenge disappears with his conquest.
On the flip side, men will tell you anytime you wish to listen that they expect their daughters to be different, unique, virginal, and in charge of their lives. Consequently, they act without ever verbalizing this: “Women I chase are not respected nearly as much as if they were more modest, feminine, mysterious, and uniquely different from their sisters. They all can provide sex. So what’s the big deal? My permanent woman must be different than the others—at least to me.”
Unfortunately, women have to pay this price: They have to show female beauty to all men, not just the few they could like. This requirement comes from the principle that female value rises and women profit most when men compete for them. Competition floods the male nature, and females can and should take advantage of every break that God gives, Nature endows, and hormones energize in both sexes.