- Men appreciate female virtue and women appreciate masculine character as most promising for a good life together. Virginity ranks highest and near-virginity ranks next on the virtue scale. Personal responsibility ranks highest on the character scale.
- Men are the bricks of society and women are the mortar. Bricks don’t weep, but mortar often does. Socially conditioning boys to cry weakens them as adult bricks. The mortar hardens automatically to compensate, and confusion follows when relationship strains and stresses arrive.
- She does not love being a female, but she expects to keep one man around. Nature places heavy odds against it happening.
- Managers tell people HOW to do their job. Leaders tell people WHAT to do. When leaders can’t distinguish between their two roles and act accordingly, they generate poor morale.
- Women like men to open doors for them to enter first. A man’s good character shines brighter when he holds open doors and displays other courtesies for all females.
- Don’t be so quick to want rules about flirting and other male-female interactions. Rules bypass individual natures and turn people toward phoniness. Not good for making relationships last.
- Necessity is the mother of invention. Frustration is the father of both invention and all cuss words.
1241. RANDOM THOUGHTS—Group 38
Filed under Dear daughter
good morning-
i read your blog frequently. i don’t think i have ever commented or expressed gratitude for the wisdom you share. today i feel compelled to rectify this…
…thank you for your wisdom and your generosity in sharing.
i must tell you that i love being a woman. you are not the first man i have encountered that finds it hard to believe that some women love being women. then again, i am apart of the group of women that historically have always been treated more harshly than other women of the planet. i haven’t been pampered and appreciated into rebellion like those women that seem determined to make life harder for all women.
thanks again for continuing to share much needed wisdom. abundant blessings to you and yours.
Your Highness FocusedPurpose,
I love it when pretty women sign up for this cruise. I have something special as tomorrow’s post. It fits into your value system and agenda for life so perfectly that I dedicate it to you. It’s #1242.
Guy
I never cuss because I just don’t feel the need to. I can’t explain why though. So what’s the deal with people who cuss a lot?
Your Highness Anonymous,
Look at cussing two ways:
1. Acceptable as in masculine frustration. For example, a man hits his thumb with a hammer and exclaims something not vile, such as darn!, damn!, or ‘sheeee…it!’. It’s an intrapersonal rebuke and needn’t be condemned. It’s usually a good sign. Masculine frustration energizes a man to continue with greater determination. His reflexive cussing automatically releases disappointment in himself so he can proceed.
2. This cussing is unacceptable if females say so. Cussers express themselves with vile words offensive to the female nature. Such cussers haven’t been taught or haven’t learned to see value in not cussing. Not taught by parents or learned from those with whom they associate. In effect, they respect their own freedom to cuss more highly than they respect those among whom they cuss.
Except to uphold religious principles, among men no pressures exist to suppress cussing. Moral integrity and ethical uprightness tend to suppress cuss words, but females are the primary promoters of it. When women show displeasure and disappointment, cussing around them eventually ceases. Individual women either have standards up to which they demand their associates rise, or they hear a lot of what they don’t want to hear, or they choose new associates.
Guy