- Women live as if they truly are the weaker sex. Men have nothing more exceptional than themselves to look up to, and so they look down on women.
- Women tolerate men or things that embarrass them, disturb their sense of privacy or person, or encourage them to act as guys do. Persistently avoiding and preventing such things generates female uniqueness, standards, and expectations that appear as virtue and respect to male eyes.
- Her hard-headedness tames the right man. Her soft-heartedness fine tunes him.
- Devotion outshines a man’s words. He acts out rather than expresses his feelings. He fulfills his promises. He spends what time he can with her for the sake of nothing else. He looks to her for confirmation, comfort, and companionship. He works harder outside the home to fulfill his manly role of provider and protector. His devotion shines from what he does for her, even though his affectionate words will be scarcer than she prefers.
- A woman that builds her nest to suit only herself soon finds faults in her man. A woman that builds their home to please her man finds worth in her man. His worth leads to her gratefulness, which brings happiness to her.
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These are your BEST reminders ever, Guy. Absolutely, every last one!!! A home run for sure, and now, look: it’s out of the park!
I have been slipping lately, but am strong in my convictions. There is a male associate who has been trying to break (test) me through immature male hardtoget tactics. I started to question myself and made thoughts of being more accommodating. Thanks to your daily efforts and another website: http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk and safely still on track with a hard head and a soft heart with no face to save! Thank you! Is it bad that I look forward to the “game” he will play next, so that I can gracefully bat it away if it doesn’t suit me? I have a smile on my face and happiness in my heart.
Lady Kaikou
Your Highness Lady Kaikou,
“Is it bad…” you ask. Of course not. Playing his “game” enables you to find out what he’s worth to you. You can send messages that let him know you expect him to make himself worthy of you. You’re priceless and you’ll see whether he goes beyond the words of commitment and displays actions that show his devotion. It takes time with your hardheadedness making the important judgment calls.
Guy
How do you send the messages Sir Guy?
Your Highness Abigail,
Rely on your hardheadedness to question his intentions, call his bluffs, be slow to accept what he says, inquire about what appears to be his hidden agendas, query what motivates him to do things you don’t like or appreciate, smile acceptingly but refuse or lack eagerness to rise to whatever he expects of you, show more dedication to family or religious convictions than to him.
Guy
Thank you so much Sir! I love it when handsome gentlemen are so quick to respond!
I really like these reminders, yet I’m not sure I fully understand the first one.
It does sound sort of like the complaint by Mr. Darcy in Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice that finding an accomplished woman is a rare thing. (I’d read the book in college and decided to re-read it recently after it was suggested in three blogs I had been following.)
Or maybe it’s more Biblically related? Like “Who can find a virtuous woman?”
Your Highness Always-the-Lady,
No, disconnect it from Austen.
Modern women eagerly duplicate masculine behavior. They displace feminine interests with masculine ones. Consequently, they act more like guys, compete with men, and literally make themselves the weaker of the sexes. Their attitude conveys the absence of mental strength, and it aids men to outsmart women for physical advantage aka sex.
Guy
Makes sense now. I’ve definitely been guilty of trying to be more like one of the guys (like not being offended by cursing or blatant sexual innuendo, although strangely enough I do still get upset about guys not holding doors open for me.)
Being one of the guys benefits no one but the guys.
Quote-worthy Kaikou!
One of my dearest friends (a lady) said to me yesterday:
“Kaikou, let’s focus on accomplishment.”
So beautiful. So simple. So true.