1542. Friendly Reminders — #23


  • One’s attitude reflects what’s in their heart. In the battle of the sexes, rejection by an assertive lady merely means no score. Ridicule does not flow from it, so she gains value. Rejection aggressively expressed with a feminist flavor transmits ridicule. This ranks next to insignificance as a man’s greatest fear with a woman. It shifts him into fight mode to restore his dignity. Her value plummets.
  • She decides when to yield. He hopes sooner, but the greater his investment of Self—shared emotions, time, effort, money—the greater her value to him.
  • Hunks, jocks, and dreamy guys tend to be like this: Unconditional respect for the female gender is low or non-existent. He wasn’t expected in the teens to treat females respectfully, and so it’s not embedded in his psyche. Consequently, her personal qualities mean little other than her likeability for companionship. He tires of her easily, however, because the next hottie appears more exciting and companionable.
  • As Emerson said: The world turns on hope. Her relationships always spin, plunge, and soar on hope. Virtual virginity shifts a man’s life from hope for sex to hope for her.
  • A woman’s personal strategy of virtual virginity should not be disclosed to those that know her. It works much better as private commitment to Self and potential conquerors one-on-one.

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2 responses to “1542. Friendly Reminders — #23

  1. Princess

    Hello Dear Guy,

    Quoting you: “Rejection aggressively expressed with a feminist flavor transmits ridicule. This ranks next to insignificance as a man’s greatest fear with a woman. It shifts him into fight mode to restore his dignity. Her value plummets. ” Can you explain this a little further, perhaps with an example. I am running across a pattern here – with women withholding affection /sex without fighting; it can be very challenging when the male reacts negative to this strategy.

    Your Highness Princess,

    Welcome aboard. It’s a great day when another pretty woman joins us on this cruise to WhatWomenNeverHear.

    Perhaps the term ‘feminist flavor’ doesn’t convey the complete picture. May I suggest you spend some time in the series “Dark Side of Feminism” to get a clearer picture. If it doesn’t satisfy you, then I have misinterpreted your last sentence above.

    Guy

    • Princess

      Hi Guy,

      I wanted to explore fore the part where you say “Rejection aggressively expressed with a feminist flavor transmits ridicule “. Transmits ridicule – how can one avoid that.. with actions.. as the last thing a women want is for her man to have a fighting spirit.

      Your Highness Princess,
      You avoid it by acting feminine instead of feminist, respectful of men instead of mocking their foibles, remember their ego defends their sense of significance, their greatest fear is insignificance in the eyes of their woman, appreciative for who and what individual men are in life, and grateful for who and what they are in your life. Compete with them for only one thing: Prevent yielding sex except under your terms and after they make themselves worthy of your hand in marriage.
      Guy

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