1594. His Little Interest in Sex — Part I: Feminist Causes


Her Highness Pink Peony inquired at 1590, why so many and even Christian wives complain that “their husbands didn’t want sex with them and some were newlywed.…what would cause this and what would a wife do in such a circumstance without making it worse?” The answer lies completely within this concept: lack of respect.

As I address Feminism, keep this in mind. I’m proud of legal, political, and economic gains of women. I exclusively address the causes and effects within the social and domestic arenas, where men and women relate with each other as couples.

The lack of respect has roots in Feminism and the death of Ladyhood. They led to the demise of gentlemanly behavior and generated the more direct cause of wives’ disappointment in husbands—that is, cheap and easy sex made ubiquitous and promiscuous sex made popular. The following cause-and-effect upheavals spread into an epidemic.

  • Women inspired by Feminism demean males. Feminist cohorts teach enthusiasts to regard men as unrespectable. Not just for what they do, but for what men think, stand for, and are capable of doing. Ostensibly, the macro purpose is to kill paternalism, and political correctness is a greatly popular micro tactic. (Contrary to feminist’ hopes and promises, maternalism hasn’t developed but paternalism intensifies.)
  • To compensate men for ill-treatment and prevent cultural upheavals, feminists promote and propagandize cheap and easy sex. Women buy into the propagandized game so enjoyable, profitable, but also less risky to men. The interests of traditional women are buried in social activity that promotes sex as entertainment. (Hate is easier to generate than love, entertainment is easier to promote than moral uprightness, sex is easier to promote than monogamy. The easier ways harm marriages. Consequently, our ancestors promoted the social and domestic strengths found in Judeo-Christian morality.)
  • Compensated by plenty of sex, modern men go along to get along. Marriage is exclusively the woman’s game to promote and sustain. Husbandly and fatherly responsibility weaken and smother marriages with parental irresponsibility for raising the next generation. Each new generation causes further deterioration of traditional values formerly controlled by Womanhood. Daughters outdo their moms who outdid their own moms. (Adults now substitute pets for having children; they fear their own ability to raise children who might be as difficult to raise as they were. It symbolizes adult disrespect for both themselves and any children they might have.)
  • Each new generation creates their own set of social values, standards, and expectations. Consider this: We get a new generation every six or seven years as the next has to make itself different from the last about the time they enter first grade.

The fallout of those upheavals still churns and twists the cultural values, standards, and expectations out of the hands of women—the traditional dominant power—and into the hands of male-dominated entertainment and electronic media. Fifty years ago men dominated society (what we all do) and the workplace; women dominated the home and culture (why we do what we do). Nowadays, men dominate all four arenas except for micro incidents in judicial and administrative matters and political correctioneers looking to advance their agenda.

The cheap and easy sex epidemic invades the home of married couples and infiltrates the bedroom. That’s where this series takes us, but the consequences of cheap and easy sex come first—tomorrow.

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12 Responses to 1594. His Little Interest in Sex — Part I: Feminist Causes

  1. Jeddie

    feminism doesn’t want fairness. The equality they supposedly seek isn’t possible anyway because of God’s design. but they don’t believe in God’s design or they wouldn’t be “feminist.” I really don’t understand what the payoff is for a sane woman to be a feminist (unless it really is like rush limbaugh says). i remember reading an article a few years back lambasting tv show “Sex and the City” and how hard it tries to convince us to believe that among other things, women have a sex drive like men. i just really don’t think men and women process it the same way and i look forward to the next article.

    Your Highness Jeddie,
    Welcome aboard. It’s a great day when another pretty woman joins us on this cruise to WhatWomenNeverHear.
    Guy

  2. That Horse Is Dead...

    I want to add that abortion is another root of why many women opt not to have children and instead become parent to pets. Self-preservation and the need to justify a decision made in the past to abort a child requires a woman to change the way she sees children, family, and in particular babies.

    A baby growing inside of her or holding/nurturing her baby means facing the truth of what she did. Unforgiveness toward herself is often at the center of her “it’s a me world” philosophy.

    I believe as more women face the pain of a past abortion, forgive themselves, and move toward recovery they will be able to mentor young girls to make decisions for purity and change future generations.

    • Sharon

      That Horse . . .,
      You have made some very insightful observations regarding some of the reasons and after-effects of having an abortion, as well as the hope and help for others that self-forgiveness may generate.

  3. Zipporah

    PARENTS TO PETS…WOW. is this why the pet market is getting so popular?treats and birthday (cakes) for dogs? Women used to have kids & pets both and the pet was treated like one of the fsmily…but not as extreme as this

  4. Zipporah

    It’s also possible that men young men don’t want sex with wives because of internet porn. They spend all of their sexual energy on it and so the porn makes them completely SEXLESS! Sometimes they dont have sex for months.

    • Anne

      But I think that is (or can be) tied into the respect piece Guy is telling us about, too.

      • I agree, Anne, porn is contained within the lack of respect for women in general, which affects his wife in particular. It may not be something that the wife can easily alter, since it’s not something she is doing to cause him to disrespect her, but is more the general culture — much like women have become feminist (negatively) which has changed our culture, so even feminine women face a bigger challenge than did our fore-mothers, simply because we have to deal with men who are used to dealing with our feminist sisters.

        I think it is something women *can* alter (though it may take a long time and will likely be very difficult to do), though I would defer to Sir Guy on exactly how. He may have discussed porn in the past, but I can’t remember and don’t have time to check right now.

        • A.GuyMaligned

          Your Highness Kathy,
          I searched the CONTENTS page and found 4 articles with porn in the title.
          Guy

  5. pink peony

    wow this is really interesting. i never believed the men who say they watch porn to “get in the mood”. simply because if a live woman can’t do it how can a t.v. or computer screen do it? so in essence the fantasy replaces the reality. i see now how lack of respect affects many areas in a relationship. this is a totally new perspective for me. i guess we wives focus so much on the physical threats to our marriages we overlook the other free and easy targets on screen. it seems they have more power than the women walking past on the street. i guess when sex is reduced to entertainment that’s where the lack of interest in marital sex comes in. almost like watching the same movie everyday.

    Your Highness Pink Peony,
    Gosh, your ladyship. Do you realize the profoundness of this? “i guess when sex is reduced to entertainment that’s where the lack of interest in marital sex comes in. almost like watching the same movie everyday.”
    Guy

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