More than three years ago, Her Highness Jessica wondered about a sex difference with huge consequences. She said: “But I seriously wonder if men truly feel absolutely nothing for a woman they just conquered? I have trouble believing that our creator would make one sex sooo emotional and dependent on the approval of men…while making the other sex indifferent after his needs have been met. Can men simply shower and move on, while women are left with a deeper void than ever? Our anatomy says yes…but my heart says they must feel something!” My response follows.
Whatever you’ve read here, love and emotional attachment were not included. I stick to the male and female nature with primal urges and hormonal drives.
Men have two different sex drives: One to conquer and the other for regular sex. Women confuse themselves. First, because sex bonds them, women can’t accept that it doesn’t bond men. Second, they blame everything offensive on masculine need to spread seed.
Conquest ends his quest with each woman. Mission accomplished! He’s free, he’s released from ‘hunt and conquer’ mode—with her, that is.
More of his true nature will emerge. Now he can be himself. Not to say he’s not his true self during the quest but that his mission to conquer outranks full disclosure. This can and does often hide insincerity or trigger dishonesty.
All this has nothing to do with her except that her yielding proves she likes and approves of his style, character, and sexual prowess aka superior skill. No more need for him to change to please her. This doesn’t mean he won’t want to please her because of emotional connections, but that he won’t change any more even if he has deep emotional connections. Also, he has conqueror’s right to sex on demand with her (theoretically and expectantly more than demandingly and actually).
Following conquest, it’s the ancient battle of who owns whom—see post 446.1 for the simplest explanation [and to which over 50 comments were posted by women disagreeing with each other].
Her Highness Theresa commented with the following (minor editing added):
“Jessica, I know you asked Guy and not me, and he’ll give you a more succinct answer, but here are my thoughts, from what Guy has said before. If you have unmarried sex, you cease to be “exceptional.” Don’t forget about oxytocin, which females release in much larger quantities in their bodies after sex. This is why we become as you say sooo emotional. Men release it too but in much smaller doses, so sex doesn’t make them as emotional as us.”
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