06/15/2012 · 8:44 am
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Ideally, women are independent before conquest and dependent after marriage. Men respect the former as competition for something of high value. They expect the latter as conqueror’s right. The gap between conquest and marriage becomes high risk for women. Too much independence drives men away. Too much dependence scares men away. Before the pill and sexual revolution in the Sixties, women closed that gap; they insisted on marriage before sex.
- Married women stress their personal independence visually instead of indirectly and thoughtfully. For example, they dress carelessly and sloppily, because they have a man and see no need to attract others. However, unmarried men feast with their eyes. They see marriage as a place where women turn unattractive and, hence, probably boring. Marriage appears less appealing. It’s a by-product of the collapse of female dominance that reigned when unmarried sex was taboo.
- Modern rock and the music derived from it re-program the female subconscious with negative, disparaging, and female-unfriendly thoughts, ideas, and feelings. The loudness, hollering, screaming, and physical exuberance of participants accelerate changes in whatever values, standards, and beliefs are held by listeners. It causes females to devalue their self-love. Their self-image weakens and the blossom falls off self-esteem previously generated in a respectful and loving childhood home. Their spirit and attitude turns toward that of men, the ones that developed the mind-altering music. Girls and young women toss female values into the mosh pit of only men.
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I’m glad you mentioned MUSIC… it’s also RAP music as well as rock..these girls/women are totally oblivious to what happens with their ‘self-love’ and femininity with these forms. What you need to mention, is there is VERY FEW male singers that sing to women in an attractive way these days anyway. IMO the BEST era was until the mid 70s, but getting bad around the early part of decade
The style of dancing also changed along with the style of music. Going to dances used to be one of the ways men and women got to meet each other and the atmosphere was elegant and civilized. Today, even so-called formal dances have loud rock music so people can barely talk to each other and obnoxious lighting effects so people can barely see each other. While men and women still dance together, they do a type of dancing that doesn’t really require a partner. I see movies that portray the old styles of dancing and it looks like a lot more fun than what we’ve got now. I never got the opportunity to attend dances like that as I was born much too late.
I’ve been searching for the post that had the line, ” a woman is a reflection of her husband ” but cannot come up with it right now. Could you elaborate on that statement sometime? I’ve read similar statements such as” to get to know a man, get to know his wife.” I have some ideas as to what is meant by that statement but I need your clear, precise thinking to sharpen up my vague, shadowy ideas. Many, many thanks for all you do for us ladies!
Your Highness Miss Terri,
Perhaps you remember this, “A wife is a reflection of her husband. A wife is a reflection of her husband. A wife is a reflec…. Otherwise, she may be successful outside the home but probably not in it.”
Wives get to know the ‘inner working’s of their husband so well, clearly, and respectfully that unconsciously they anticipate, adapt, and try to duplicate his thinking habits. All very hush-hush you see, because she doesn’t even know it’s happening. It’s her natural, female-inspired contribution to generate a stronger bond and greater compatibility. It springs out of her primal need for a brighter future.
Guy