At post 146 Her Highness Kathy asked two questions. I respond to one today and the other tomorrow at 1708.
“Where are these guys you can date and be chaste with while dating?” Such guys are everywhere. Remaining chaste while dating is a woman’s choice. Getting a man to return for chaste dates is a function of what she does on dates, and specifically what he interprets as promise in her to meet his future needs, wants, companionship, and enjoyment. If he sees only sex as the promise she holds for him, he will depart sooner or later. Good riddance before she wastes time with another Mr. NotGoodEnough.
While remaining chaste, if she becomes a significant promise for him FOR OTHER THAN SEX, he comes back for dates, maybe courtship, and perhaps marriage. To encourage his laying aside sexual aspirations, she has to outwit him. I suggest that she be logical, rational, and up front, blunt, and candid about marriage. Post 1702 is the starting point for learning how to beat men at their sex-first game. See the CONTENTS page at blog top for other articles that supplement her interest.
Tomorrow’s post 1708 responds to your question about being called a prude and old fashioned.