1735. RANDOM THOUGHTS—Group 71


  • The more a woman focuses on her man’s undesirable traits or habits, the bigger and worse her mental picture grows. The brighter it reflects into his face, the more unchangeable he becomes. On the other hand, the more she finds things to admire about him, the better he becomes in his eyes and her heart. It happens slowly over decades, but in the end he becomes what she imagines him to be and she learns to admire. The process produces Mr. Right.
  • His prospective bride’s relative purity doesn’t haunt a man nearly as much as thoughts that men and women will laugh behind his back that he was suckered into marriage by a promiscuous woman. His fear is rooted in his nature, and most men carry the fear as an expectation into adulthood.
  • Virtue is what women have that men admire and with which men would like to associate themselves.
  • Men can fall in love at first sight, but women can’t. Women fall in love with themselves falling in love at first sight of a dreamboat.
  • If girls don’t realize before puberty just who and what they are and how worthy they are to others, they keep searching and trying to figure it out. Their lives generally end early from frustration or lack of interest. Boys figure it all out after puberty as they confirm and reinforce who they are, what they can do, how enterprising they are to themselves, and how worthy they can be to a woman.

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3 responses to “1735. RANDOM THOUGHTS—Group 71

  1. anonymous

    Would you mind clarifying these points? Thank you!
    “His prospective bride’s relative purity doesn’t haunt a man nearly as much as thoughts that men and women will laugh behind his back that he was suckered into marriage by a promiscuous woman.”
    Strange, from a biological standpoint one would think actual purity would be more important (to ensure offspring are his). Does this mean that a less pure woman who refuses to discuss her sexual experiences with anyone is more desirable than one who is relatively more pure but talks openly about her few experiences?

    “His fears are rooted in his nature, and most men carry it as an expectation into adulthood.”

    Most men carry what as an expectation into adulthood?

    Your Highness Anonymous,

    You’re right about the biological standpoint. Yes, the woman that refuses to discuss her sexual experiences is more desirable; the chance of her being promiscuous diminishes and the potential threat to a man of marrying a promiscuous woman declines.

    The “it as an expectation” refers to his fears. I’ll correct the grammar.

    Guy

  2. Brittany

    I don’t know if this has been explained in another post or not, but how do men fall in love at first sight but women can’t?

    This is an awesome post, I just need a little clarification :)

    Your Highness Brittany,

    Essentially, women live in the future and find love at first encounter rather than first sight. They screen for a potential mate rather than just for attractiveness. Men live in the present and the attractiveness of a woman triggers love at first sight. She’s so drop-dead gorgeous to him that he can forego conquest for fear of losing her.

    Articles 1534, 1535, and 1611 provide more detail about love for both men and women.

    Guy

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