“BOYS who go for the ‘easiest’ one are lacking the quality of character and maturity to be worth considering.” [Melissa at 1696]
“Outward appearance having been sorted, I now work hard on improving my moods.” [Lianne at 1031]
“I have a friend that I think could have saved her marriage had she not told her friends and family all about her husband’s unfaithfulness. She would have looked ridiculous and had a lot of awkward social situations to deal with if she’d stayed married.” [Starviolet @1694]
“Lisa, an old-time preacher once said, “DO right, and you will FEEL right.” If you take action to put “pretty-time” first, your mindset will then begin to change. [Sharon at 1691]
“[Porn] is one of the most coarsening things occurring today which obliterates the family and in turn, the well being of this nation. Nothing is more important than the breakdown of the family. As it goes, so goes the nation.” [Beauregardtheman aka Stephanie at 1376]
“Ladies: if you own a home and want to get married, for goodness sake, rent it out. Do not have HIM move in with you. The MAN is supposed to find the wife…not a woman is supposed to find a husband…he must have the house or apt…and you are supposed to move in with HIM when MARRIED or else he doesn’t respect you even if you do marry him. Many times men don’t know what they want. They need to be in charge but want to please. It’s their nature! [Anon… at 577]
What should lady think of a man who says “Hello”/”How are you today?” But says little else to move the conversation forward? Was his interest minimal to begin with? Or my response not what he was looking for (i.e. “Fine, thank you”/”Well”). Mind you this is at the workplace, so I don’t really know what I should respond. There are rumors that I have my sights set on an older male colleague (his wife works here as well and encourage me to talk to him -why?), so I have been rather timid in my work conversations.
Lady Kaikou
Your Highness Lady Kaikou,
The world of decent people is full of inconsequential words that self-centered people try to heat to a boil of meaningfulness. Your hope meter may be low and you might be paying too much attention to little things. How do the hope meters of the people you work with read about your contributions as a dedicated employee and friendly associate? Just asking, but it may give you an idea of how to get your mind off of inconsequential things.
Guy
Sir Guy,
what are some of the best compliments or admirations you’ve ever received from a woman, directly or indirectly? And why were they particularly memorable?
Your Highness Anonymous,
That’s tough and as I try to respond, it’s highly personal. However….
Except for my wife’s and ladies’ compliments on this blog, I don’t recall any of consequence except this one: You really look sharp (in military uniform). For the most part, my accomplishments never rated compliment or admiration of women not my wife. Until old age, that is. Nowadays, as I spread the word about the new business I started at age 80, women frequently tell Grace “you got a good one” or words to that effect. They compliment me by admiring Grace. Nice to think but untrue, earlier in life women admired me by complimenting Grace. Actually, they complimented me by admiring Grace as wife, woman, or mother.
All compliments or admirations received are memorable for one thing: What the person who said it meant to me. The greater my respect for them, the more meaningful was their comment. The more that women are grateful for hearing of my new business, the more I respect them. (Life’s simple and charged with affirming thoughts, when you find something that pleases others.)
Guy
Regarding 1376 and PORN: IMO if we dont slow it down or really try to stop its encroachment. There will BE NO ECONOMY in the near future. Economy STARTS with strong families~~and right now, isnt the economy slipping? Who wouldve thought HOSTESS would go out of business. The reason the US economy was strong was~STRONG MORAL FIBER.. no sex before marriage….although people did it, even before the late 60s.it wasnt an epidemic.