If one seeks a better understanding of the battle of the sexes, one needs to examine human behavior with emotions taken out, neutralized, or nullified. Remove positive influences such as love and religion and a host of negative and strong motivators such as envy, jealousy, prejudice, and hatred. Without these obstructions the basic nature of both sexes becomes discernible. This blog takes us there.
Men are designed by God, produced by Nature, and energized and driven by hormones. And, that’s before they stop to think. Once old enough and they learn to pursue their self-interest, they do whatever the female gender requires for frequent and convenient access to sex.
The male and female natures are very different. Compatible relationships come from integrating their self-interests and exploiting their natures, especially their drives, needs, wants, fears, and time focus. One simple example: Men fear insignificance, women fear abandonment. She can ease her fears by holding up or improving his significance, instead of letting it decline or fade.
I applaud the legal, political, and economic gains wrought by women fighting under the feminist banner. However, the domestic, social, and cultural consequences work directly against females. I accept the gains as well earned on the battlefield of politics. I attack the the feminist fallout as unwitting penalty to women, children, and families.
For forty years modern women have listened to other women about men. They believe and act on feminist nonsense, and it damages relationships. They haven’t listened to men, so they never learn what makes men want to help fulfill female hopes and dreams.
In particular, feminists tore down the most fundamental foundation of successful man-woman relationships—unconditional respect for the opposite sex equal to or greater than respect for one’s own gender. The feminist agenda promotes disrespect of men. Unconditional respect was pushed aside in favor of respect conditional on what men do for women and one man for one woman. It’s a failed strategy for females.
I acknowledge the hyperbole, but modern women don’t know jack about Jack, too little about Jill, and virtually nothing about sex differences that cause them to stumble and tumble down the relationship hill. This blog attempts to narrow the gap with thoughts that women never hear. Some advice appears plus many Maalox moments for all those hours of relationship reflux.