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Men are designed by God, produced by Nature, and driven by hormones. And, that’s before they stop to think. Once old enough and they learn to pursue their self-interest, they do whatever the female gender requires for frequent and convenient access to sex.

Men and women are very different. Compatible relationships come from integrating their self-interests and exploiting their natures, especially their drives, needs, wants, and fears. One simple example: Men fear insignificance, women fear abandonment. She can ease her fears by holding up or improving his significance, instead of letting it decline or fade.

For forty years modern women have listened to other women about men. They believe and act on feminist nonsense, and it damages relationships. They never listen, so they never learn from men what makes men want to help fulfill female hopes and dreams.

In particular, feminists tore down the most fundamental foundation of successful man-woman relationships—unconditional respect for the opposite sex equal to or greater than respect for one’s own gender. The feminist agenda disrespects men. Unconditional respect was pushed aside in favor of respect conditional on what men do for women and one man for one woman. It’s a failed strategy for females.

I acknowledge the hyperbole, but modern women don’t know jack about Jack, too little about Jill, and virtually nothing about why they stumble and tumble down the relationship hill. This blog attempts to narrow the gap with thoughts that women never hear. No advice, just Maalox moments for all those hours of relationship reflux.