The Author

My byline is A. Guy Maligned, and I expose some mysteries of why men and women rarely succeed living together as couples.

Married to Grace in our first and only marriage for each, we raised three boys but lost one to leukemia when he was 30.

It took awhile, but we learned new ways to make the days blissful for each other. Consequently, after 53 years we still have a great life.

My experience accumulated across more than a dozen professional sectors that included senior naval officer, major university professor, graduate college dean, and congressional chief of staff.

My email is planohelm@verizon.net.

   
 
 
 

 

 
 
 
 

 

 

 

 

 

5 Comments

  • Tina Martlage
    February 16, 2008 at 12:56 pm

    I love it!!!! I’m so glad that you and Grace have chosen to be my friends! You all are the best

  • drizitche
    March 27, 2008 at 10:31 pm

    I couldn’t find a single idea out of place, out of date, or out of touch with the male/female dynamic of today’s world: and I read 50+ entries.

    I can’t imagine the flack you must catch, now and again, from some women, for such clinical and largely undeniable observations. But then, I most definitely respect such a well-meaning effort directed at a largely oblivious and self-deceptive demographic.

    I applaud your work, enjoyed the read, and sincerely hope that your writing brings about a better world for all of us.

    ~ Driz

  • Angel
    May 2, 2008 at 2:41 am

    Fabulous! And I’ve only begun my read. Your lives together has obviously taught you how to love and cherish the opposite sex.

    I’m sorry for the loss of one of your sons, and as a woman, I thank you for raising them to be manly men in the right way!

  • alyssav
    May 16, 2008 at 7:41 am

    I find many of the ideas in these entries rather stereotypical. They seem to reinforce artificial gender roles and strengthen the “gender binary” gap. I feel this can be harmful in many ways. I appreciate the fact that you are so passionate though, and I know your heart is in the right place.

    AGM responds: You’re near the top of my favorite viewers. Thanks.

    Feminists politicize history studies to advance the feminist agenda. Especially women studies.
    Watch for forthcoming posts entitled: From feminine mystique to feminist mistakes.
    Guy

  • Suzanne
    June 1, 2008 at 8:12 pm

    The most recent post on Infatuation is absolutely prophetic!!..It is so undeniably accurate…and you have been given a true gift in your ability to articulate these truths…….. once you post them they become so blatantly obvious to your female readers…….please keep up this amazing work……your insights have become priceless to me………

Leave a Reply