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Using pseudonym A. Guy Maligned, I expose mysteries of why men and women have so much trouble living together as couples.

I dedicate this blog to females that groom and dress to be pretty instead of erotic, attractive instead of comfortable, and modest instead of convenient. Each one reminds how much more beautiful the world can be.

My generation has something that younger generations have lost. We consider the opposite sex separate, equal, and more highly respected than our own gender. Separate because sex differences do matter. Equal because equality is impossible, but we all deserve it according to the Christian God. And, more respected because we admire rather than envy the other gender’s uniqueness.

Married to Grace in our first and only marriage for each, we raised three boys but lost one to leukemia when he was 30.

It took awhile, but we learned new ways to make the days blissful for each other. Consequently, after 54 years we have a great, fun-filled life. She graciously and encouragingly smoothes out wrinkles in all that you read. Without her wonderful support, unwavering confidence, and extreme patience, this blog would be just a dream. 

My experience accumulated across more than a dozen professional sectors that included senior naval officer, major university professor, graduate college dean, and congressional chief of staff.

My email is planohelm@verizon.net.