These ‘fortitudinals’ provide special themes or summaries. Numbers match the posts.
66. A woman easily kills her relationship when she exhibits female weaknesses that harden her heart against cooperation and soften her head in favor of competing with her man.
67. She recycles to the dreaded ex side of life. Her lament: ♫Where oh when ♫is my [...]
♀?♂ When unmarried women yield the first time to a man, he wins much more than sex. Men rule over women they conquer. If she refuses, he dumps her.
♀?♂ Men see friendship differently. Women don’t fit a man’s mold of pure friendship, except when they are not sex targets.
♀?♂ Men treat women according to [...]
♀ ♥ Virtual virginity means just say No to unmarried sex. The purpose: To separate mature from immature, real from fake, reliable from irresponsible, surprising from humdrum, decisive from spineless, adult from adolescent in men and boys. Otherwise known as assessing a guy’s true potential for responsible husbanding and fathering.
♀ ♥ Unless he chooses [...]
Every couple has two options: Become enslaved to money, or make money their slave. Marriages fail more from financial problems than anything else.
We survived, but barely. We were broke for the first two decades of our marriage. Out of money before out of month. We tried everything. Grace managed money, and I overspent. I [...]
♀ Modern women let the need to have boyfriend override common sense. His commitment promises togetherness that remains open-ended.
♀ Women that talk endlessly when with a man cannot also be mysterious. Unless, perhaps, if their jabber stays impersonal, which it seldom remains.
♀ Women make the institution of marriage of, by, and for women [...]
These ‘fortitudinals’ provide special themes or summaries. Numbers match the posts.
61. If they’ve not had their first sex together, he hears, he heeds, and he modifies his behavior in whatever way he thinks will advance his agenda for bed time together. Long sex-free courtships accumulate more of his habitual changes that help fulfill her hopes [...]
♫♥♫ As one woman claimed, Femininity adds color to a man’s black and white world. (Alison A. Armstrong, Keys to the Kingdom, 2003, PAX Programs, Inc. Sherman Oaks, CA , p.151)
♫♥♫ Old School vs. New School—Until sixty years ago females largely withheld sex until engagement or marriage. Men married expecting to stay that way. Nowadays, [...]
♫ Men go for full disclosure in clothing but not person. Women go for full disclosure in person but not apparel.
♫ Women have a good sense of what transpires beneath the surface of interpersonal relations. Men don’t.
♫ Women have a natural and strongly motivating sense of guilt. A man’s sense of guilt, if he [...]
Women marry so buried in love that they ignore a more critical issue to fulfilling their hopes and dreams—the importance of respect to their man and for the male nature.
First, men marry for significance. A husband expects wife’s respect for who he is and gratitude for what he does. It symbolizes his significance.
Second, [...]
♂ ♀ Her known past generates many more suspicions than acceptances and assurances. Her unknown past generates fewer suspicions to eat away at the mutual trust she hopes to build.
♂ ♀ Counselors often advise full disclosure. When men actively pursue more about her past, they cannot not use the info they gain. Talked into [...]
These ‘fortitudinals’ provide special themes or summaries. Numbers match the posts.
56. Any organization needs a CEO, a final authority to whom falls the toughest decisions. Two-boss organizations inevitably fall apart, and people—think kids—are confused by two equal authorities to whom they report. It’s so easy to play one against the other.
57. Women seek happiness [...]
Selfishness is a minor subset of self-interest. (Post # 223)
Selfishness insists on getting one’s way at the expense of others. It’s natural to the human condition.
The need for and delivery of food and care teaches infants that being selfish pays off. Thus, long before an infant’s conscious mind comes alive, his subconscious mind gets [...]
Patriarchy is natural. Throughout history no matriarchy ever arose, but our American foremothers came closest. Our forebears converted and integrated immigrant patriarchies into a female-friendly, family-centered society.
Our Judeo-Christian value system empowered husbands to dominate workplace and society and enabled wives to dominate home and culture. This empowered our foremothers to promote manly significance and [...]
Except for the physical, feminine nature easily counterbalances male dominance. But modern women abandon their strengths.
♀ Her mystery, morality, and modesty signal ‘permission denied’ for male boldness. It checks him, before he ventures too far. His need for caution makes him uncomfortable, which adds to her ability to dominate.
♀ If he’s comfortable, he’s [...]
♣ She assertively initiates unmarried sex—will she be led to church or left in the lurch? Odds favor the latter.
♣ New mothers that have no husband to love them indulge their children in hope mom will be more deeply appreciated.
♣ She wears her heart on her sleeve, just to be sure he understands her—mystique [...]
