I’m back on the blog full time.
I’m back on the blog full time.
I leave Tuesday 7/22 on a 10-12 day trip for business and grandson’s wedding. Should be back by August 3 at latest. My access to both email and blog will be very limited, but I shall remain loyal to those who comment or ask questions.
I leave you with yesterday’s post, 2020, as an eye-opener to see the blog closer to 20/20. I hope it works for everyone as well as Screamstyle’s progress on her recovery.
If you get bored, study up near the end of the Default Attitudes (aka Female Blessings from Birth), specifically those numbered in the 80s. Some shocks too!
Have a great week or two.
Whether girl or woman, bachelorette or single mom, live in or wife, each lives with an abundance of guilt. Men can and do, but women can’t get rid of it. To some degree women feel too guilty and it languishes for years before fading from their hearts. However, they can ease it and I encourage women to neutralize it at least and overwhelm it at best with self-gratitude.
(Just guessing but I suspect it works something like this. Each woman has a full load that she carries all the time. New guilt displaces the least significant.)
Unfortunately, susceptibility to guilt eats away self-respect, so women need a stronger character foundation. Their nature provides it, dedication to themselves as vital to those around them. But that requires less guilt and some self-respect. Consequently, women need to continually both offset the former and reinforce the latter. The answer lies in habitually using the dresser mirror and the habit of deliberately spending time there. Out of mirror time comes less guilt, more self-respect, and reinforced self-gratitude. All of which enable dedication to themselves as vital to others.
Details about mirror use are coming soon. In the meantime, reviewing these related articles, 1003 and 1291, may fill in some blanks I leave behind.
Several days ago I mentioned a new concept, self-gratitude. That is, the finding of things about oneself for which she is grateful. Well, writing what I have to say has proven as difficult as the concept is potentially valuable to women. My rewriting thus far remains in a state of dissatisfaction, so I can’t publish it yet.
Here’s a hint. It puts her face-to-face with her greatest earthly friend. I will suggest a procedure that will produce the greatest advancements that women can make in their lives. To use the concept is to both fertilize and stimulate her heart and mind to produce what she wants her world to look and feel like. It puts her in greater charge of her life than ever before. And it can be had by merely figuring out herself how to exploit her female nature to her best advantage.
In the meantime, I will publish some more compatibility axioms.
Night before last my main blog partner, Her Majesty Grace, passed away. We had 59 glorious married years together and raised three sons. Our Heavenly Father showed immense mercy—totally undeserved—by prematurely ending her battle with Alzheimer’s.
I will be contributing unpredictably. For two weeks or so I expect to maintain the blog on some kind of life support. You can expect responses to your questions but delays will be lengthy.
LADIES, the past year has been a happy one. The following comes from the friendly and friendlier WordPress authorities.
The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2013 annual report for this blog.
Here’s an excerpt:
The Louvre Museum has 8.5 million visitors per year. This blog was viewed about 460,000 times in 2013. If it were an exhibit at the Louvre Museum, it would take about 20 days for that many people to see it.
Dear Mr. Beck,
You seek ways that We the People can reboot America and restore our exceptionalism and greatness—and rightly so. You seek a Whitfield moment and recovery that begins in the pulpit—and rightly so. You seek a union of free men who stand up more responsibly to restore the constitutional American spirit—and rightly so. May I add another truth to your quest?
I have not heard you mention this. Through lack of certainty caused by politics and propaganda, men and women are unable to capitalize on how God designs, Nature endows, and hormones energize the sexes to be different in hundreds of ways. Consequently, the traditional battle of the sexes has escalated into war with children in the crossfire. While feminism has wrought huge legal, political, and economic gains for women, the radioactive fallout generates conflict, demolishes harmony, and prevents compatibility in the social and domestic arenas.
We are created to be compatible as mates, but we destroy that inheritance by prioritizing unmarried sex over permanent mating. Endowed to do good, which enables us to be good people, we poison that primal urge with left-leaning politics. Energized for self-interest, we escalate to selfish and beyond.
Synthesized out of two male-dominated religions, American forebears developed our Judeo-Christian culture. Under persistent female domestic pressures, the culture gently evolved into wifely domination of values. Men need only a hut, but women turn huts into castles. Men conquered the West but women civilized it. Pillow- and breakfast-talk sent husbands into the fields, factories, streets, and courts to improve life for women and children. Men dominated workplace and society but women dominated home and culture.* By promoting and appreciating the effort of free individuals, relationships evolved such that respect for the opposite sex equaled or exceeded respect for one’s own gender.
As if a reciprocating engine, it worked this way. Fuel mixture: Women are predominantly motivated by the need of self-importance; men by the need of self-admiration. Combustion: Women respect men for who they are and admire them for what they do. Women guard their uniqueness and men find them important and respect them for what they do. Mutual respect generates mutual trust. Travel: Compatible relationships become easier, steadier, and lengthier. American cultural greatness and economic exceptionalism grow.
Progressives undermine truth in order to remake society in their image. They demean sex differences and propagandize that the sexes are alike except for reproductive differences. Because non-Progressives ignore God’s designs, Nature’s blessings, and hormonal urges, Progressives more easily divide us into two classes: rulers and dependents (aka regulatory tyrants and ambulatory subjects).
Thus, Mr. Beck, we lose our culture because we ignore the hundreds of sex differences caused by God, Nature, and hormones. Capitalize on those differences in spite of Progressive pressures and we can restore men and women to the roles in America that the founders expected, children appreciate, and grannies are proud of what they have done.
If you think more truth can aid your quest, the potential can be evaluated at What Women Never Hear: http://wwnh.wordpress.com.
Bill Clark Dean (aka A. Guy Maligned)
P.S. I have no interest in personal contact. I am too busy trying to help individual women around the world put their lives on a better track or back together.
*Many years ago Tocqueville spotted it in action, “[M]orals are the work of woman.”
I like to make the holiday season personal in this way. Today we Americans give thanks for what we have and who we love and like. At Christmas we Christians give thanks for who we are in the eyes of God and family and friends. Recognizing and displaying our gratitude is the common theme. The holidays are thus made happy because happiness flows from gratefulness.
Gratefulness civilizes us and the more the better. The process of finding ways to express gratitude for others displays a unique respectfulness that makes women smile more and men work more responsibly on behalf of family. Their natures cause this; women are happier during the holidays because they more easily find and spread gratitude than do men.
I wish a Happy Thanksgiving Day to Americans everywhere. To others, I hope they can find ways to find and spotlight gratefulness for who they are and whom they love and like. We only uncover and release the good life together when we unconditionally respect and find gratitude for each other. Turkey comes second.