556. Response to Viewer — Item 10

Becca emailed this: I do have a question that I feel is overlooked by many people advocating holding off on sex with a man until he has proven his devotion… what if you just happen to love sex? Obviously one of the “prizes” for men upon marrying a woman is securing a stable sex partner, [...]

512. Love vs. Respect — Section I

The simple: A man’s love is founded on unconditional respect of all females and built up with conditional respect for one woman. He expects respect more than anything else from his woman and demonstrated more through actions (male default) than words (female default).
The complex: Much female misery flows from women not knowing the answer to [...]

346. Weans, tweens, and teens #12 — Puberty

    What we do with what we have before puberty is the fault or to the credit of our parents. What we do after puberty is our own fault or to our credit, because that’s when our own judgments come into play.
The value systems of children at puberty scatter beneath a bell curve. But, I’ll focus on the [...]

286. Wham, bam, thank you, ma’m! — Post 5 of 5

SUBJECT: Men are not considerate of her sexual wants, needs, and desires. Granted, they should be, but….
Love sits atop but does not dominate this subject. It may overcome and hold them together, and it may not.
 ♀2♂?  If conveying her wants, needs, and desires outweigh his satisfactions about their sex life, she’s not likely [...]

283. Female dominance: Gone! —Part 9

          Our foremothers courted as the buyer, married, and became the seller. Modern women court as the seller, marry, and become the buyer. The former married permanently, the latter marries temporarily.
Our foremothers knew the price and paid for their man up front. They withheld sex and qualifed his potential for Mr. Right. Then they [...]

268. Weans, tweens, and teens #10 — Self-centered

          This post continues the description of subsets that make up the universal motivator, self-interest (post 223). Mature self-interest arrives after a child passes through three stages that are simplified here for clarity.
Selfish (post 239), self-centered, and self-tests are actions that motivate children at various stages of growing up. This post summarizes selfishness and then [...]

266. Wham, bam, thank you, ma’m! — Post 1 of 5

SUBJECT: Men are not considerate of her sexual wants, needs, and desires. Granted, they should be, but….
♫ Their natures and interests differ markedly on this subject. He’s made one way, she’s made another. She wants them to be more alike, he wants them to just get on with it.
♫ Women nurture, men lead. Women [...]

260. Female Fortitude — 76 through 80

These ‘fortitudinals’ provide special themes or summaries. Numbers match the posts.
76.   She seeks to be friends with her kids and elevates them to adult status. This demotes husband to subordinate status, which he views as insignificance and, therefore, insufferable.
77.   A woman has to sell a man on fidelity, marriage, and her female worth as comfort partner. [...]