540. Unmarried women shape society: Part 1

Before the sexual revolution, married women shaped society by dominating the culture. After the 1960s unmarried females enabled men to dominate the culture, and now the society works against females. She always has choices, however….
©     Her Nature: She shapes their relationship to meet her expectations for fulfilling her hopes and dreams. Dating for other reasons [...]

520. Exes with Benefits? — III

After a breakup, if she wants him back, she lets him work on his own mind and heart. Chastity triggers it like nothing else can. Some additional thoughts:
·        What should be free no longer is. It drives little boys crazy. Men can be little boys grown tall.
·        He has trouble believing that she’s not [...]

516. Exes with Benefits? — II

The lead article in this series introduced the subject of sex after breakup and how to reconcile successfully, should she ever desire it.
Chastity with an ex makes her the driver and him the passenger. It reenergizes his natural drive to conquer and squeezes it beneath her commitment to serve herself with abstinence.
Under such pressures, [...]

509. The ABCs Revisited

A matriarchy has never arisen in more than seven millennia, but feminists keep trying. There’s gold in patriarchy for women who commit to mining it.
Background. Our foremothers before the Sixties made patriarchal men recognize and implement greater friendliness with female values, which also enabled children to play outside without fear of predators. The sexual [...]

470. He’s Wary to Marry — Section 1

Some women drop virginity and chastity on the premise that females have the same sexual rights as males. Other women believe that having the right does not make it right.
Some women tear down masculinity to get what women want. Other women uplift manliness to get what women want.
Some women teach young girls about [...]

449. VIRTUE— Magnet for Males —SECTION III

Virtue is learned best before puberty and when taught by parents and authority figures such as teachers. Learned after puberty or taught by peers, behaviors are predominately adolescent. Few appear virtuous to mature men. 
What’s the difference? In today’s social marketplace, popularity and wishful thinking overrule experience and wisdom learned the hard way. Boys do, [...]

447. VIRTUE—Magnet for Males—SECTION I

Women ‘read’ the inner man better than men read women. They may not do it well, but men read and interpret her in terms of virtue. This series explores how men do it.
Women misunderstand virtue as it works, and it spotlights an inability to deal more successfully with men. With most of the dots connected, [...]

445. Response to Viewer — Item 2

Easybreezy wondered at post #439: Were our foremothers really upholding virtue before the 1960s? Were there not many shotgun weddings?
Yes to both questions.
v Our foremothers used virtue as a weapon of mass perception to encourage men to sacrifice independence in favor of family responsibility.
v Re shotguns: It used to be customary that men [...]