“…[Y]ou can’t fix him — especially if you sleep with him!” (Kathy at past #25)
“Involving male-female relations, a woman’s body is her cover letter. The rest about her, including her brain, is her resume.” (Dogsandfitness at 681)
“…[H]omecare is not an end in itself.” (Princess Rita at 705)
“On another note, this weekend, I made it my [...]
The two previous articles describe the different needs, drives, and wants of both genders. More differences will follow this post too.
Her Greatest Fear: She fears abandonment by her father and then her man.
His Greatest Fear: He fears insignificance especially in the eyes of his woman.
Her Time Focus: A woman focuses primarily on the future in [...]
Her Wants:
♦ A woman does not absolutely need a man, but she wants company or assistance at specific times in life.
♦ Her primal want is for a solid relationship with someone stronger and more influential in shaping events that impact her and her children.
♦ She wants help to brighten her future in a society [...]
Mutual happiness flows out of interactions that she controls, or at least she’s the major initiator.
Actions generate gratefulness, which generates happiness. Working backward, her happiness flows from her gratitude for who he is and what he does, from what she gains by partnering with him. Her gratitude arises from actions that demonstrate her gratefulness, because [...]
This post discloses sex differences that help or hinder the shaping of a mutual attitude of gratitude so essential for mutual happiness.
A woman measures her value as a person by her importance to others in her world.
A man measures his value as a person by his sense of both importance and significance in his world. [...]
Ladies, this could be the most meaningful series in the blog, if you can master it. It does, however, require study and perhaps restudy.
A mutual attitude of gratitude jumpstarts mutual happiness, but it doesn’t come easily. The sexes display gratefulness differently. However, she’s the relationship expert and controlling partner for cultivating it!
So many women [...]
Ladies, watch this one closely: Relationships revolve around respect, and she’s in charge. She initiates and he responds. She has to show her respect and also earn his.
♦ Men don’t respect females as they respect men or as women hope to be respected.
♦ Men may take a liking to a woman on first encounter, but [...]
Her Highness ‘A Questioner’ commented at post 619, “I’m often saddened by the fact that hubby doesn’t call/txt during the day, and that generally speaking, once he does see me, he usually asks for food!! I have to remind him sometimes that I’m not the cafeteria lady. ”
Nowadays, our expectations are such that if we [...]
