Porn transmutes a man into a sex junkie. Continued use destroys husbandly integrity and fatherly leadership. Did wife push him toward it, for example, by originating her thoughts or confirming his thoughts about his sexual insignificance?
He may not bring his work home, but he brings expectations for how home differs from work. He expects not [...]
Posts Tagged as ‘female nature’
10/27/2009
723. RANDOM THOUGHTS — Group 9
10/10/2009
706. Favored Quotes — Collection 5
“…[Y]ou can’t fix him — especially if you sleep with him!” (Kathy at past #25)
“Involving male-female relations, a woman’s body is her cover letter. The rest about her, including her brain, is her resume.” (Dogsandfitness at 681)
“…[H]omecare is not an end in itself.” (Princess Rita at 705)
“On another note, this weekend, I made it my [...]
09/30/2009
696. Wife’s Dependency — Section 1
Several ladies voice confusion about the dependent role of wife, so let me start with the husband’s side.
♦ First, we have actual dependency. Husband fulfills his responsibility by producing, providing, protecting, and problem solving. He’s not easily discouraged in this primary mission, because it’s basic to the male nature.
♦ Second, we have symbols that reflect [...]
09/29/2009
695. Keepers for Keepers — Assortment 21
♦ If she can’t accept him as king in their home, she pushes him toward the escape hatch. His nature works against treatment less than royal. (Nothing to do with what he earns or deserves.) [10]
♦ After a man conquers a woman, he knows her well enough and perhaps as well as he desires. He can [...]
09/28/2009
694. Attitude of Gratitude — Part 5
This summary completes the series about grateful actions that can lead to mutual happiness.
Wife directly demonstrates her gratitude for husband, which makes her happy with him.
♦ That’s it. Her happiness-seeking ‘job’ is simple and easy.
♦ Unless, that is, she can’t show gratitude. She may have chosen or turned him into Mr. Wrong. Or she may [...]
09/27/2009
693. Attitude of Gratitude — Part 4
Compared to females, men are simple, but not always. His happiness flows from his accomplishments and hers from relationships.
This is a man:
♦ He identifies with his work and responsibilities. The action of tackling them makes him grateful for his job and the opportunities afforded.
♦ He generates value for himself by accomplishing things, reinforcing his [...]
09/26/2009
692. Attitude of Gratitude — Part 3
Mutual happiness flows out of interactions that she controls, or at least she’s the major initiator.
Actions generate gratefulness, which generates happiness. Working backward, her happiness flows from her gratitude for who he is and what he does, from what she gains by partnering with him. Her gratitude arises from actions that demonstrate her gratefulness, because [...]
09/25/2009
691. Attitude of Gratitude — Part 2
This post discloses sex differences that help or hinder the shaping of a mutual attitude of gratitude so essential for mutual happiness.
A woman measures her value as a person by her importance to others in her world.
A man measures his value as a person by his sense of both importance and significance in his world. [...]
