997. RANDOM THOUGHTS—Group 24

• The popularity of unmarried sex makes males appreciate sex much more than females. Modern males compete with females for sex instead of with males for females.
• If men don’t compete for the woman instead of sex with her, then women have considerably less value as unique creatures. Every woman can provide sex, so her uniqueness dissipates when she yields. Her value as potential woman and wife goes up only when men have to keep trying to win her favor for sex.  The harder he tries, the greater her value.
• A woman with a hardened heart mistreats her man. She generates hassles in his castle by treating his opinions as less important and judgments as less valuable than those of someone else.
• Mother gives birth to a less-than-normal child (or has one die) and goes to extremes to provide care or assuage her grief (or guilt). She devotes herself to the child (or her grief and guilt) at the expense of her relationship with husband. Thus she makes him insignificant relative to her agonies. When she can’t forgive him, her, or both, continuous internalizing hardens her heart. 
• Women feminized men into this modern-day condition: Younger men accept that she has slept with guys he knows, perhaps even buds. It makes men more female-like and more passive just to have a woman. Why? Because they have to overlook or back off from their natural expectations about her virtue. They retain adolescent traits. They’re easier to get along with, but as responsible husbands and fathers they lack masculine stubbornness that breeds greatness in responsibilities of husbanding, fathering, and marital longevity.

423. Sex and fickle girl — Part 18

♥ Women tolerate men or things that embarrass them, disturb their sense of privacy or person, or call for them to act as guys do. Persistently avoiding and preventing such things generates female uniqueness, standards, and expectations that appear as virtue and respect to male eyes.

♥ Differences between a man’s words and actions disclose his hidden agenda regarding her—provided she has patience and braininess to detect differences.

♥ Deliberate delay of conquest forces males to suppress aggressiveness, weaken their dominant spirit, and please a woman habitually—unless they’re after sex instead of her.

♥ Male bashing in emails, koffeeklatches, and entertainment media imply or accuse men of domestic irresponsibility. The self-fulfilling prophecy works, and modern women face men they don’t care much about—promise-breaking boyfriends, lackluster husbands, irresponsible fathers, someone else’s ex, violent spouses.  

♥ Spiritual bonding ties a couple; it inspires both to live up to something higher than themselves. Sexual bonding affects only the female, and inspires neither to live up to something higher.

♥ Modern wives reject castle-building for their man. They enshrine themselves with him as prince consort to her as sovereign queen. Only wusses, feminized men, and political correctioneers stay long with such women.

♥ Modern women refuse to reward their man for husbanding and fathering—as men expect it. Inadequate seeding produces a poor harvest.