♦ Sex does not bond men. That’s why we have marriage vows to shift a man’s focus from crotch to conscience. [214]
♦ Long-term marriage boils down to this: She chose him. She’s the relationship expert. Experts choose carefully and make adjustments to live with what they buy in to. [227]
♦ Mature men devote themselves to [...]
Posts Tagged as ‘intercourse’
08/08/2009
643. Keepers for Keepers — Assortment 19
05/13/2009
556. Response to Viewer — Item 10
Becca emailed this: I do have a question that I feel is overlooked by many people advocating holding off on sex with a man until he has proven his devotion… what if you just happen to love sex? Obviously one of the “prizes” for men upon marrying a woman is securing a stable sex partner, [...]
04/08/2009
521. The ABCs with Marriage in Mind — I
The following pressures result from the primal urges described in articles 511, 514, and 517:
Drive:
· He’s basically a competitor, which energizes his spirit to conquer new females. It’s a different motivational force than his regular sex drive. Pride more than orgasm crowns the conqueror’s emotions. He undergoes a release. Mission accomplished! But, and it’s [...]
12/10/2008
405. Sex in Three Acts: Act III – Intimacy
Dear Daughter: Pay attention: You’re about to read a couple things opposite of what you think you know.
The male nature specializes in Foreplay and Intercourse, the female nature in three acts. Too easily for her, he can take intermission (cig, beer, sleep, departure) and bypass Intimacy Afterward.
After romantic love fades, if not sooner, [...]
12/08/2008
403. Sex in Three Acts: Act I – Foreplay
This series addresses the female need for intimacy after sex.
She sees sex as a three-act play: Foreplay, Doing It, and Intimacy Afterwards. After romantic love fades, if not before, she values Act III more highly than I and II. However, she often, usually, or always gets shortchanged.
To synchronize his post-coital manners with her [...]
12/03/2008
398. Keepers for Keepers — Assortment 4
Important themes deserve repeating. These keeper soundbites may help keepers.
♦ Intercourse stimulates a man’s conquering urge for the next score more than it obligates him to brighten a conquered woman’s future. [15]
♦ Men stopped complimenting women when feminists started calling it sexual harassment. [8]
♦ Not pathologically but sociologically, women act manic depressive seeking a man and obsessive [...]
