Posts Tagged as ‘love’

10/18/2009

714. Gender Differences Revisited — Group F

Differences in the sexes continue. Curious about the total, I number them.

A man wants his hut or castle outfitted for physical comfort. A woman wants her nest lined with emotional comfort.
The male nature competes first and cooperates when necessary. The female nature cooperates first and competes when necessary.  
A man thrives on a woman’s support and [...]

09/13/2009

679. Respect Revisited — II

Once together as couple and on through marriage, his staying power depends on respect she shows him, and his love depends on respect she earns from him. One-sided and confusing, yes, but it determines outcomes.

No serious relationship arises or succeeds, when she shows disrespect for him. He determines what’s disrespectful, and unfortunately for her feminists [...]

08/20/2009

655. Good News to Lift Female Blues — Part I

WWNH includes the benefits of the majority living the good Christian life. What’s in female hearts counts for most of the goodness in society.

The Christian’s heart is softer for both women, who are naturally soft-hearted, and men who are naturally hard-hearted. Christian beliefs make both sexes more considerate of others, especially females, children, and mates.
God [...]

08/19/2009

654. Quips from Mrs. Guy — #1

♦       Hot flashes yield to vitamin E, at least that’s the way it worked for me.
♦       Without ladies, we can have no gentlemen.
♦       Men use love to get sex. Women use sex to get love. The former blesses and the latter distresses females.  
♦       It took Guy 35 years to get me trained exactly as [...]

08/05/2009

640. Sex differences explain men — Chap. 34

Men fear rejection on initial encounters, but they get over it. Women take rejection much harder and recovery is especially difficult if she thinks a relationship has started.

 

Husband takes wife for granted, when she displays the independence that men commonly show. He sees her doing well if his attention is not required. Her self-confidence and [...]

07/25/2009

629. Mothering Sons #03

I offer no advice for mothering sons. Rather, I focus on causes and effects that show why mothers may be disappointed with whatever they’re doing or hope to get. They should figure out what works best for their family.

Tweens—The effectiveness of mom’s nurturing fades. Love doesn’t help much to motivate tween sons. Soothing love helps, [...]

07/21/2009

625. Random Thoughts — Group 2

♦       Love is never enough. Too many little negatives interfere, and too few positives support it.
♦       Modern men have many malpractices for dealing with women and living with one. But men are trainable, when women set their mind to it.
♦       When women want a man more than their dignity and self-respect, they invariably choose poorly.
♦       [...]

07/19/2009

623. Mothering Sons — #01: Phases

I dedicate this series to Her Highness Adrian. My words, not hers: What’s the secret to raising good boys? The answer: Don’t raise bad ones! —at which this series aims. Good boys are essentially accidents left over from teaching boys to like Self, respect others, admire good character, and live up to something bigger than [...]