749. Gender Differences Revisited — Group N

Sex to her is giving of herself. To him, it’s taking—especially their first time together.  
She is the expert on relationships and bonding. He is the expert on sex and escaping.
Starting at puberty, boys are turned off by female nagging—unless she’s a sex target as yet unconquered. It’s natural and for life.
Women hunger for marriage. Men [...]

743. Her Affection Deficit Disorder

The female nature craves attention and affection at certain times, for specific reasons, and especially for confirming a woman’s self-love. His attentions add and his affection confirms worth to her, or so she feels.
·  Compared to four or five decades ago, female self-esteem is lower. Self-image is twisted from having bought into feminist issues that contradict [...]

714. Gender Differences Revisited — Group F

Differences in the sexes continue. Curious about the total, I number them.

A man wants his hut or castle outfitted for physical comfort. A woman wants her nest lined with emotional comfort.
The male nature competes first and cooperates when necessary. The female nature cooperates first and competes when necessary.  
A man thrives on a woman’s support and [...]

707. Make Mr. Promiscuous Faithful — Part 1

Her Highness Sofia asked at post #25: How do I find a good man who will not cheat, do they exist?
First, you don’t find them. One woman convinces each man that she’s more valuable than the rewards of cheating. Second, such men exist, but most have been conditioned to be faithful by females. Wives play [...]

696. Wife’s Dependency — Section 1

Several ladies voice confusion about the dependent role of wife, so let me start with the husband’s side.
♦       First, we have actual dependency. Husband fulfills his responsibility by producing, providing, protecting, and problem solving. He’s not easily discouraged in this primary mission, because it’s basic to the male nature.
♦       Second, we have symbols that reflect [...]

695. Keepers for Keepers — Assortment 21

♦       If she can’t accept him as king in their home, she pushes him toward the escape hatch. His nature works against treatment less than royal. (Nothing to do with what he earns or deserves.) [10]
♦       After a man conquers a woman, he knows her well enough and perhaps as well as he desires. He can [...]

694. Attitude of Gratitude — Part 5

This summary completes the series about grateful actions that can lead to mutual happiness.
Wife directly demonstrates her gratitude for husband, which makes her happy with him.
♦       That’s it. Her happiness-seeking ‘job’ is simple and easy.
♦       Unless, that is, she can’t show gratitude. She may have chosen or turned him into Mr. Wrong. Or she may [...]

693. Attitude of Gratitude — Part 4

 Compared to females, men are simple, but not always. His happiness flows from his accomplishments and hers from relationships. 
This is a man:
 ♦       He identifies with his work and responsibilities. The action of tackling them makes him grateful for his job and the opportunities afforded.
♦       He generates value for himself by accomplishing things, reinforcing his [...]