Posts Tagged as ‘married men’

10/13/2008

347. Abstinence Pays

Girlhood abstinence reduces male dominance.
As part of the sexual revolution, women abandon the lessons of their mothers and grandmothers. They exploit newly proclaimed sexual ‘rights’, and abandon the time-honored American female strategy of No Sex without Marriage.
But, they go too far. Feminism inspired greater sexual freedom for females, but women could not keep [...]

09/29/2008

333. What daughters never hear — Section 09

The female nature provides women with extraordinary skills for eliminating confusion interacting with men. But, women don’t trust their nature anymore, so they look for admin, legal, or political assistance.
♂♥♀ Some women follow their nature and dress up fishing for compliments. Other women dress down, abandon their female nature, and miss compliments that could [...]

09/23/2008

327. Her sexual history — Part 10

♂?♀  If he won’t honor her privacy about her sexual past, he probably won’t honor her other expectations either.
♂?♀  Her undisclosed sexual past defends their relationship, because his ammo box lacks her historical bullets to fire back in domestic squabbles.
♂?♀  He may very well hold against her what he knows nothing about. Especially [...]

09/14/2008

318. Sex differences explain men — Chap. 23

The female mindset: Women worry about three phases of sex: foreplay, intercourse, and intimacy afterward. Men don’t.
Background
·        Adolescent male nature:  Intercourse is just intercourse. Foreplay should be unnecessary but can be fun. Intimacy interferes with recovery. Who’s next?
·        Mature male nature: Certain emotional involvements—such as respect and affection for her—add meaning and necessity to [...]

09/12/2008

316. Female Fortitude—141 through 150

These ‘fortitudinals’ provide theme or summary of previous posts. The numbers match the source.
141.       When a woman talks about her exes, she places a magnifying glass over her own shortcomings.
142.       He offers his strengths for her to appreciate. If she shows no weaknesses, his strengths fade in importance, and so does she.
143.       Most [...]

09/07/2008

311. Preventive maintenance — Checklist II

The squabble-prevention checklist continues:
♥ Keeping him is easy but not simple, once she learns to use her female strengths.
♥ Feminine brightens his day. As one woman put it, femininity adds color to a man’s B&W world. [Alison A. Armstrong, Keys to the Kingdom, p.151]
♥ People respect those who are different, unique, and powerful within [...]

09/05/2008

309. Lifelong husbands—made, not born — Part II

The males’ default habits are not girl-, woman-, wife-, or even family-friendly. Females either program males around their defaults, or else husbands and fathers flop around eager to escape domestic responsibility and ‘confinement’.
Her nature craves togetherness; his craves independence. Men have little natural interest in yielding independence to fulfill female dreams for paired-up closeness.
Men [...]

09/04/2008

308. Do women know jack about Jack? —Part 18

♂?  The male nature tends to take a female for granted. Using the virtual virginity strategy prevents her being taken for granted before marriage. Ensuring that his devotion goes beyond mere commitment minimizes her being taken for granted after marriage. Does he like, love, or cherish her? Without the latter, relationships easily shatter.
♂?  A man [...]