410. KEEPERS FOR KEEPERS—Assortment 7

Some nuggets, just like a good mate, are keepers.

☼ A man’s dedication to legal, moral, or religious principles overpowers his natural urge to hunt and conquer or just seek somebody younger. [17]  

☼ A woman’s ego restricts her from treating him as king, because she’s driven naturally to dominate her nest and their home. [4]

☼ Cheap sex teaches men that relationships are, and of masculine right should be, temporary. [8]

☼ Devotion lasts, commitment may not. [13]

☼ Enduring love, the kind that lasts forever, is neither spontaneous nor easily terminated. [17]

☼ Feminism unleashes the savage male beast. Femininity tames it. [1]

☼ Her immodesty and lack of self-restraint endorses the man’s game of wham, bam, thank you, mam. [12]

☼ If shack up or marry up is not the man’s idea, then he will not long honor whatever relationship arrangement he enters. [7]

☼ Men can be intuitive too. When she thinks he deserves her criticism, he instinctively disagrees. [17]

☼ If she does not slow him to her schedule for conquest, he departs sooner or later. [17]

 

288. Chaste courtship works — Part 8

♂©♀  The more she likes herself as a female, the more outwardly dominant she can permit a man to be, because of high confidence about ultimately getting him to accept her way about her needs, wants, and desires in their life together.

♂©♀  Mr. Right does not arrive in her life. She turns the man in her life into the right man, and the process lasts as long as his devotion to her. To her mind, he never quite gets there. But, he also never finds out what she’s been doing—until it’s too late, and they are aging gracefully together.

♂©♀  Successful courtships belong to predominately hard-headed women who patiently and indirectly integrate mutual interests into a bright future together. Virtual virginity best holds his attention, while she works the scene.

♂©♀  Men grow their love for a woman from light-hearted feelings that he stumbles into—she’s attractive, fun, likeable, very respectable—and he slowly becomes magnetized by her other qualities. (Such as those at post 59.) 

♂©♀  Most women have two options: give of herself as a helpmate, or live life alone, lonesome, and often desperate. Young women claim it’s b…s…, but they’ve not aged yet either.

♂©♀  In courtship it pays for her to have high regard for and associate with many other people—not dating tho. He should not win her heart and mind completely until after they marry. The stick while courting, the carrot after marriage.

[More about making caste courtships work at posts 174, 163, 154, 143, 108, 107, and 100. Scroll down sequentially or search by the number with a dot and space following.]

274. Do women know jack about Jack? —Part 16

♀?♂  Men marry the unique sex target attention-getter, but how long will it last? She lured with and put his focus on sex, and so many other sex targets pass by as she and their relationship age.

♀?♂  Lower moral standards provide fewer opportunities and incentives for a man to earn recognition of women. 

♀?♂  Newly divorced men and widowers have to retest their mettle. Do they still have their studliness? Did marriage improve it or hurt? It makes rebounds easily disposable.

♀?♂  Sex easily or casually provided makes a man also look elsewhere. Sex denied makes him focus on the here-and-now woman.

♀?♂  Sex for couples just verbally committed to each other teaches men they need not devote themselves to one woman.

♀?♂  The greater the prospects of being rejected by a woman, the less likely a man will intrude on her privacy or whatever.

♀?♂  Men must be taught to treat a woman according to her expectations. They learn it best by being deprived of conquest

♀?♂  Failure to conquer intensifies his drive to overcome her resistance.   

[More jack about Jack appears in posts 249, 232, 217, 202, 185, 172, 162, 153, 142, 135, 132, 114, 97, 91, and 7. Scroll down or search by the number with a dot and space following it.]

242. Newlywed Bonding #3 — Respect as glue

Women marry so buried in love that they ignore a more critical issue to fulfilling their hopes and dreams—the importance of respect to their man and for the male nature.

First, men marry for significance. A husband expects wife’s respect for who he is and gratitude for what he does. It symbolizes his significance.

Second, husband’s greatest fear is insignificance, symbolized by wife’s disrespect and ingratitude. If she doesn’t depend upon him for a lot, or if she’s too independent, his sense of significance fades.

Third, a man’s love is based on respect for a particular woman. His unconditional respect for the female gender helps immensely, if he has it.  

Fourth, he wants her to stay the woman he married. He expects her not to change, but many women do. She loses both respect and her identity as the exciting thing that turned him onto marriage. His marital dream fades.

Fifth, she expects to change him into the man of her dreams. When she tries to change him, he resists. She pushes, he resents. She tries too hard, he retaliates. Ultimately, she loses so much respect that his masculine nature trumps his love.

Wife’s greatest fear is abandonment. A husband doesn’t stay long with a wife that he doesn’t respect or that doesn’t respect and appreciate him.

[More about newlywed bonding appears in posts 230 and 224. Scroll down or search for the number followed by a dot and space.]

236. Female malpractice — Part 7

♣ She assertively initiates unmarried sex—will she be led to church or left in the lurch? Odds favor the latter.

♣ New mothers that have no husband to love them indulge their children in hope mom will be more deeply appreciated. 

♣ She wears her heart on her sleeve, just to be sure he understands her—mystique or mistake? Probably the latter.

♣ She goes for one-night stands and bitches when he doesn’t call. Who’s at fault? The giver or the taker?

♣ Girls providing fellatio in public add dignity to the female gender. Right?

♣ Young women join adolescent men in raucously and raunchly applauding women stripping, pole dancing, using dildos. Debase your own gender and expect manly respect for anything but sex? Reflect badly on the gender? 

♣ She gets in his face loudly to win an argument. Is she attractive to keep around or just another guy to ignore?

♣ A woman kisses a frog into princehood. They marry. Then, she neuters him with words that wound his spirit for any kind of life with her. Then she can’t stand him, because he becomes more like what she calls him. Also, he can’t stand himself being with her.

[More about female malpractice appears in posts 221, 206, 189, 175, 164, and 150. Scroll down or search for the number with a dot and space following it.]

188. Boob language — Part 7

♀ If her boobs ain’t perky, pointed, and a distinct pair, she’s already starting to look older. Bosomy breasts come naturally as women age.

♀ It’s fashionable. Women emphasize cleavage, and display skin elsewhere. Thus, they keep men focused on sex, while complaining that that’s all men think about.  

♀ It’s fashionable. Men score more easily. Women make blossom-to-blossom popular,  easy, and destructive to lasting relationships.

♀ Women rationalize that subliminal messages about sex offset their extra fat. It does until after a man’s conquest, when both the natural and the fashionable redirect his thoughts toward other targets.  

♀ Women think personal grooming unnecessary for everyday life. They purposely dress down to discourage approaches by men. Then, they complain when they seek a boyfriend and men don’t approach. Or, women aren’t experienced enough to convert hits to boyfriend capture.

♀ Women resent that men ogle females. So, except on the prowl, women dress down. And, men get less beauty to gaze upon, consider, assess, chase, court, and marry. Female value goes down and masculine interests go elsewhere—sports, hobbies, toys, sex targets.

♀ Women use their boobs to distract from fat and flaws elsewhere. They blame guys for weak commitment and mask female self-deception about attire and personal grooming.

 

186. Female Fortitude — 17 through 25

These ‘fortitudinals’ provide themes or summarize posts. The paragraph numbers match the posts.

17.      A mature woman can cope with her man’s sharp tongue much easier than he can with hers.

18.      When words are enough to conquer, that and little else is what men will offer.

19.      Female soft-headedness: She wants her own man so badly that she signs up with almost any male offer.

21.      Com-mit-ment counts as three little words. So does, “What’s for dinner?”

22.      Some women tear down manliness and masculinity to get what women want. Other women uplift manliness and masculinity to get what women want.

23.      Feminism divides and alienates men and women. Femininity breathes harmony into male-female relationships.

24.      Women marry expecting their man to change, but he doesn’t. Men marry expecting their wife not to change, but she does.

25.      Virtual virginity buys time to earn a man’s devotion, which bonds more tightly than commitment.

[Previous fortitudinals appear in posts 176 and 182.]

142. Do women know jack about Jack? —Part 7

♂ First-time sex with each woman is a conquering event, after which he rates her as keeper, standby, or dumpee.

♂ For the hunter-conqueror, the greater his target’s perceived virtue, the greater her value and his inspiration to keep trying. 

♂ Hard-to-get means other guys failed before him. So, it enlarges the self-stroking of a man’s ego.

♂ He offers his strengths for her to appreciate. If she shows no weaknesses, his strengths fade in importance, and so does she.

♂ His respect for his woman softens a man’s heart, and her gratitude for him softens his hard-headedness.

♂ His trustworthiness as mate is wrapped within her gratefulness for him as husband and father, provider and protector, and those other things he deems critical to his current and significant mission in life.

♂ His woman’s grooming and appearance in public add to or detract from him. Other men look at her, but they also take the measure of him—or so he either thinks or desires.

♂ Husband wants wife to look queenly yet unavailable, beautiful but unattainable. Something special enough to gain masculine admiration of him yet make men realize they can never have her. That’s a major, major input to his sense of significance.

♂ If a man has flaws before they marry, each shortcoming will magnify afterward.

♂ Husband wants wife to remain the woman she was before their marriage. But she insists on changing herself, because her life is now different. Or, she was a phony before marry up, and her true side emerges. Either way, it’s not good for longevity together.

[More jack about Jack can be found at posts 135, 132, 114, 97, 91, and 7. Search on the number or scroll down.]